sometimes i am so silly

[ChinesePussy]

just like last night i was so silly i was asking something and he misunderstanding. I end up mad at him for 4 hours and he had no idea why i was mad. He keep asking me why i look mad, i said nothing. To the end i finally tell him, and i realized that I was mad at him by misunderstanding him, so by the end i was crying out coz i was holding my 4 hours of maddness, i finally cried out. So he was holding my head putting on his chest and tell me that love me and of course always respect my idea. and then blah...blah.......then i feel like i was mad at him for the stupid misunderstanding and cried out for nothing. I feel so ashame for myself coz i was so silly, i shouldn't waste my tears or mad for 4 hours and he knows nothing about what is going on.
Dam! I was just like a little girl, and the whole night he was acting like he is 45 years old and i was acting like a 12 years old girl. Ah!!!!!!!!!:mad:

I am 25 and he is 32, but i think my hubby hardly acts like 32 after he married. he acted like 45 after married, and myself acting like 15 years old same as usually.

why can't we act like match?

or was I too young to get marry? am i ? do you think i was too young to get marry ?

Sometimes i am so confused:confused:

a lot of my Chinese friends, they want to get marry and be with a good husband just like my hubby. But sometimes i act like i am too young for being in a married.

:confused:

[Loren]

Originally posted by ChinesePussy
just like last night i was so silly i was asking something and he misunderstanding. I end up mad at him for 4 hours and he had no idea why i was mad. He keep asking me why i look mad, i said nothing. To the end i finally tell him, and i realized that I was mad at him by misunderstanding him, so by the end i was crying out coz i was holding my 4 hours of maddness, i finally cried out. So he was holding my head putting on his chest and tell me that love me and of course always respect my idea. and then blah...blah.......then i feel like i was mad at him for the stupid misunderstanding and cried out for nothing. I feel so ashame for myself coz i was so silly, i shouldn't waste my tears or mad for 4 hours and he knows nothing about what is going on.
Dam! I was just like a little girl, and the whole night he was acting like he is 45 years old and i was acting like a 12 years old girl. Ah!!!!!!!!!:mad:

Misunderstandings happen in every relationship. Marriages aren't immune. I've had a few big arguments with my wife that were based in misunderstandings--and we know to expect more than our share as English is a second language to her.

I am 25 and he is 32, but i think my hubby hardly acts like 32 after he married. he acted like 45 after married, and myself acting like 15 years old same as usually.

why can't we act like match?

or was I too young to get marry? am i ? do you think i was too young to get marry ?

Most people would not regard 25 as too young to get married.

[ChinesePussy]

thank you Loren

thanks for replying my thread. Seem like no one wants to reply this thread. I guess this place is not a place for discussing relationship problem right? coz this place is for sex discussion.

thanks again

[Loren]

Originally posted by ChinesePussy
thank you Loren

thanks for replying my thread. Seem like no one wants to reply this thread. I guess this place is not a place for discussing relationship problem right? coz this place is for sex discussion.

thanks again

Well, if you don't have a relationship you're not going to be having much sex to discuss!

[Aqua]

Originally posted by ChinesePussy
...myself acting like 15 years old same as usually.

...why can't we act like match?

...or was I too young to get marry? am i ? do you think i was too young to get marry ?

:confused:
I act like I'm 15 all the time. ;) It may create issue though if your husband behaves like he is much older. Misunderstandings occur in every relationship, just like Loren said. Take each issue as it comes and be open and honest about what is bothering you. If it is a misunderstanding then it will be cleared up right away.

You may not be a match. At least not an exact match. It sounds as if he is naturally mature and you are naturally youthful. I think this is something you can work with without it causing lots of problems.

I think everyone is different, but 25 is generally not too young to marry. I think of it as a minimum for the most part. Good luck Chinese Pussy!!

[ericthered]

Happens to us all. Chinese Pussy. Of course, some old farts don't make such a big deal of it - being an old fart has to be good for something. Want to trade?

[rabbit]

ChinesePussy, welcome to the world. We are all like that sometimes.

Sometimes the last flower to blossom is the most beautiful of all...

rabbit

[Loren]

Originally posted by Aqua

You may not be a match. At least not an exact match. It sounds as if he is naturally mature and you are naturally youthful. I think this is something you can work with without it causing lots of problems.

I don't think there is such a thing as an exact match. Any two people are going to have their differences. The important thing is to find someone with whom you don't have major differences that put you into conflict.

If one of you is a spender and one is a saver you'll have lots of fights about money. On the other hand, if you are like my wife and I and have considerable differences in food preferences, it's not a big deal. We generally do not eat the same food but what's to argue about? In a way it helps as there's just about nothing we both regard as the choice bits.

[Wildeye]

ChinesePussy

My wife does the same - she's narky and touchy for days and even weeks and has no idea why.

Usually 9 out of ten I can just ride it out.

If he's being a bit too old in behaviour - surprise him with spontaneous passion eg pull up your skirt and put your crotch in his face or a BJ when he is not ready

Wildeye

[Shogun]

Its called PMS, and every woman acts like you do during that time, so dont worry.

[ChinesePussy]

thank you everyone

thank you for all the replies. i do feel much better after read all your replies