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:cool: Guys & Gals what's an average time a guy ejaculates after penetration? Is 5 minutes too qick?
Nuelaan
12-15-2002, 04:35 AM
That depends. I have lasted for over 45 minutes. I have also lasted very short times. It depends alot on the mood, and what the objective is. A night of body worship you can pace yourself and go for the long haul, if your in public somewhere and don't want to get caught, speed comes in handy. 5 minutes can be short, but it really only depends what the 2 of you are after. The fastest way to tell is to ask your partner if she/he is satisfied. That aside, if you want to add to your endurance, I have had no luck with trying to think of other things while at it, but concentrating on the partners pleasure and not on your own helps me.
Loren
12-15-2002, 05:02 PM
Originally posted by gyip
:cool: Guys & Gals what's an average time a guy ejaculates after penetration? Is 5 minutes too qick?
Too quick is not leaving your partner satisfied as well. If you can't last long enough to do it with your penis, get her close with fingers or tongue first.
sexXxyasiarican
12-15-2002, 06:58 PM
as long as my guy eats my pussy good n' I get off It's all good but U know if u go 5 min u gotta hit it up again!!!
pepsigirl
12-16-2002, 10:58 AM
well, my current lover, he will stop fucking/making love to me to hold me and play, so it prolongs his ejaculation. i like his technique best. had a lover once who it seemed would put it in and pull right out and cum. and would ask me why i never had an orgasm. geez. i've had quick lovers, long lasting lovers, but the one i have now is the best of all. :)
Jetaguy
12-16-2002, 04:37 PM
I don't know if you guys will believe me but I can't cum untill I'm told to.
This takes some training but she loves it .
We have a lot of fun with this and we always are satified
whatswithme69
12-17-2002, 12:47 AM
sometimes i cum too early for my liking, however it doesnt seem like my gf has a problem with it. a lot of times i stop before i cum so i can prolong it, but then she just begs me to go faster and faster so i obey her commands and i cum inside her pussy. she loves it when i ram my cock deep inside her and blow my load and then again...so do i :) ;)
ericthered
12-17-2002, 08:13 AM
Sorry Gyip, 5 minutes is not enough most of the time. You could do something like getting her to give you a quickie and hour before - but that's not always easy to organise. Best bet is to share the problem with her then you can do things that get her off without stimulating you too much. For example, lots of oral, mutual hand jobs, moving slowly inside her while she plays tunes on her clit (one of my favourites - it's so visually exciting and certainly does the job). Comfort yourself that the older and wiser you get, the longer you seem to last. That's why there's many a fine tune played on an old fiddle.
rabbit
12-17-2002, 08:14 PM
My first orgasm comes within 5 minutes of slipping my cock in but those thereafter take 15-20 mins each.
rabbit
creator
12-20-2002, 05:06 AM
as it was said it really depends on the occasions. Sometimes i come relativelly fast ( less than 10 minutes) , and sometimes i last more than i want to (more than 25 minutes)( this means i get so exhausted i cannot do anything else after that...i m not an athlete you know). 90+% of the times i finish last which is satisfying i think but to achieve this sometimes i have to put something non-sexy in my mind ( soccer championship , madeleine allbright , sing the national anther in my brain ), this makes me last longer :)
dicksbro
12-20-2002, 08:01 AM
Like many have said, it really depends on a lot of things. How horny do I feel; how long has it been since we made love; what's the general mood; how much foreplay has there been. Quickies can be very quick ... but longer is nicer.
newboss
12-20-2002, 12:58 PM
hi im new here so here i go. if only your first cum is too short, masturbate beforehand. :-)
airhog
12-23-2002, 12:03 AM
Mine is too short to really please my gf, but if she gets me off first, then I get her off with some oral sex, Im usually ready to go again, and can give her multiple orgasms, before ejaculating again.
SexKittten_18
04-26-2003, 02:48 PM
10 seconds ^.^
Vigil
04-26-2003, 07:08 PM
Welcome Gyip - if you make your ejaculation, whenever it may happen, the last priority of good/great sex you will have lots of fun.
Cobalt
04-27-2003, 12:58 PM
Like most have said, it depend on my mood and how since the last time.
PantyFanatic
04-27-2003, 01:19 PM
Penetration is not at the front of my sexual agenda:p:p and by the time we get to that, I’m really not watching the clock too closely. So I honestly don’t have an answer for you, but if you want to send your sister over,….. I have a stopwatch.;)
SilverEye02
04-28-2003, 06:04 PM
it all depends on how deprived i am. due to my current situation my gf and i have a hard time seeing each other so if it's been a while i cum quick the first time. but i last longer after that first one of course, so she usually likes to suck me first. but if we've had sex in the last few nights...well let's just say ' i can last all night' has a meaning to me. i've made her nearly pass out in pleasure before as she's cum time after time, but i've yet to. so it all partially depends on the body i think as well as the mindset.
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