too horny?

[Tiger_boy]

ever since i started masterbating (age 13 or so), i've been doing it more and more... lately it seems like thats all i've been doing lately... when i wake up i first cum in the shower, then clean myself off. during the school day, my mind is on sex and inbetween classes i frequently have to masterbate so i can concentrate on my next class without looking at the teacher or students and not paying attention to the lesson. i've even started spending breaks at work getting off, and when i don't have classes or work, i spend almost all my time masterbating and never getting anything done.. its become even harder to control since i learned i can suck my own cock, since it feels so increadible...and leaves both hands open for typing..any ideas?

[Casperr]

Welcome to Pixies, Tiger_boy....

Well, you say this has been ever since you started masturbating. Well, the fact that you masturbate has nothing to do with it - since 13 your hormones have kicked in and made you horny.
This is perfectly normal.
What is NOT normal is having to get off between classes, or during work. When your sex drive interferes with your ordinary life, you're probably not putting things in perspective.

Everybody gets horny, and most of us can be horny for a whole day, or several days at a time. The trick is how you deal with that horniness. You've taught yourself one simple lesson: if you're horny, you need to get off. That's crap, quite frankly. If you're horny, try toughing it out for a change! FORCE yourself to concentrate on your work or whatever you're doing.

Now, rest assured I am not saying masturbation is bad or anything stupid like me. Lord knows I masturbate at least once a day! But I don't let it interfere with my work.

Stop making excuses, Tiger. If you feel you are masturbating too much, then stop. Any addiction you have is entirely in your head.

Sorry if this advice seems a little harsh - but it seems to me you need to decide how much of a priority in your life you're going to let orgasm become.

Good luck Tiger_boy, hope this helps!
CasperTG

[jennaflower]

Ditto to what Casper said... listen to the smart man :)

[Lilith]

I agree too...... I think there is something to be said for pent up sexual tension.....It can be very motivating. It's all about self control. Try delayed gratification.....the results can be so much more intense!

[Irish]

Tiger_boy---I think that I'm qualified to address your problem because I finally admitted to myself,that I have what I believe is
called an addictive personality.You have to confront the things,
that are controlling your life.Tomorrow will be 10yrs6mo since I stopped drinking alcohol.When I started drinking,beer cost about
the same as soda.I loved beer&didn't like soda that much,so I
thought"Why not?"In everything,sex,drink,drug use,etc.things
accelerate and pretty soon,control your life,altho you don't realise
it.This doesn't only include masturbation.I have been doing that,
at least,once a day since I was 15.I'm 58 now.You have to put the
priorities in your life first and face the others head on.I still look
forward to masturbating daily but priorities come first.(pun unintended) Irish
P.S.Advice offered thru experience!

[quisath]

May I suggest an alternative.....................Become a Donor at your Local Sperm Bank. Hey.............there's good money in it too.

[horseman12]

i should look into this donor shit, i think...........

[Lilith]

<~~~~~~ is installing an automatic deposit:D:D:p

[Oldfart]

Tiger_boy

Masterbating is a normal way of exploring your sexuality, getting your rocks off and just generally feeling good.

What you are doing is not wrong, but maybe you are using it as an excuse not to seek other relationships. It's hard to get a knock-back from your own hand.

Until you find who or what you are really seeking, you'll be stuck in this rut.

Time and the right partner will put this all in perspective.

[Wombat]

Originally posted by Tiger_boy
. its become even harder to control since i learned i can suck my own cock, since it feels so increadible...and leaves both hands open for typing..any ideas?

How do you type and suck at the same time ,do you have eyes in the back of your head or what??

[Wildeye]

Tiger-boy

I agree with all of the above.

You are risking getting kicked out of classes, work and possibly a crminal charge.

And you are making wanking your norm, sex may not be able to live up to your five fingers.

Nothing wrong with wanking, except like all things in moderation and some pleasures are best delayed and taken slowly,

Most importantly is this habit or addiction? Both can be changed - but fisrt you have to admit to yourself, and cut the crap on too horny, and then identify why - face the monster, you may not alwaus win, but a draw is good enough.


Or get a partner to do it for you and slowly and not between or in classes, heck if you get a partener try sex!

good luck

Wildeye

[barcodedeyes]

my friend swait can suck his own cock...o_0;

[jennaflower]

Originally posted by quisath
May I suggest an alternative.....................Become a Donor at your Local Sperm Bank. Hey.............there's good money in it too.

ROFLMAO....

quisath.. at the rate that this guy masturbates... he would populate the entire state of Tx in less than a year :)


I urge prioritizing your life.. and allowing yourself time to have fun.. instead of your "fun" controlling your life..

[jennaflower]

Originally posted by Wombat


How do you type and suck at the same time ,do you have eyes in the back of your head or what??

ROFL.. Wombat.. is it possible that when you make such a hysterical comment that you pm me BEFORE I come across it on my own.. it might save me from having to wipe the soda off my keyboard. Me & my keyboard thank you in advance ;)

I know that this thread is meant to be serious.. and altho I do symathize with such a delemia.. I can't help but find myself in hysterical laughter at some of the posts..

Tiger-boy... if you can suck your own cock... I am actually amazed you bother to go outside.. not so sure that many men could refrain from entertaining themselves all day long :)


giggle..

I still say.. prioritize and moderation.. and PLEASE don't get addicted to pleasuring yourself orally.. or you may discover you don't WANT a woman. YIKES.

[Irish]

Originally posted by quisath
May I suggest an alternative.....................Become a Donor at your Local Sperm Bank. Hey.............there's good money in it too.
The bad side is:Think of all the support payments!Millions of
paternity suits. Irish

[jennaflower]

ROFL.. good heavens Irish.. leave it to you to make me think of work.. my caseload is already big enough.. LOL

[dzbuster]

a problem you might find is that masterbation is rougher sensation than sex and it'll make it harder to ejaculate when you finally get laid. btw: how old are you?

[clean1]

Wow! I can relate. I didn't even start getting myself off until I was 18, by then I felt like I had to catch up. I also have an addictive personality, and I went through a phase where I masturbated several times a day. I would see how fast I could cum. The good news is this passes. I was trying to fill a hole, and now It's not so obsessive. Don't get me wrong, I still like it ALOT! but i don't feel the need to spend $100 bucks a month on new vibes..... just my two cents.

btw...I have 5 1/2 years, Irish....

[Tiger_boy]

thanks for all the advice. i've tried it, and going a few days does make it much better. as for age, i'm almost 20, as for populating the state of tx...maybe... but when i was getting off so often i lacked quanity, sometimes cumming dry. after going a few days it was a flood. still, i don't think i'll ever go much longer unless i don't visit this site (pixies=instant erection)

[Irish]

clean1---Congratulations!I know that it sounds stupid to
someone,who hasn't been there,but One day at a time.
Irish

[Casperr]

Excellent to hear Tiger_boy.....

Yes, the sensations after a lay-off can be amazing! :)


still, i don't think i'll ever go much longer unless i don't visit this site

Perfectly understandable too!! Please don't think I was suggesting you go weeks and weeks without!! I wouldn't wish that on anyone! lol!! All I was trying to say was that it isn't something that should interfere with more important things, like work or study.

So enjoy your body, when and where appropriate!!

Take care,
CasperTG

[Vintage Vixen]

Now that i'm in my early 40's and definately at my peek i'd say i get myself off several times a day,one way or another.And sex is always on my mind...sometimes it drives me crazy:)

[Pussy Willow]

I'm with you BiSexyBabeDD, Sex is all I think about lately (I'll be 45 in May). Everything reminds me of sex. I carry a little dick on
my keychain and on my car keys I have a key ring that says
"There are 3 kinds of me, Small, Medium and OH MY GOD !!!!

I'm presently not looking for a cure, I masturbate at least 2-3 times a day, if not more. This is very good news for hubby, he's
been getting or at least offered more sex than he can handle, if he's home I'm looking to jump his bones......uh, I guess I mean
"bone". I LOVE masturbating, I have a whole array of toys ranging from clit stimulators to 10" dildos, and a subscription to
Playgirl magazine.

So, what's the question again ???? Is there such a thing as being too horny ? I DON'T THINK SO !!!!!!!

[Tiger_boy]

well, theres either too horny or too many other things to do.... who knows, i wish i could go with too many other things to do, since i love masterbating, but with work... what can i say, i wish i could quit and live with pussy willow... i'm getting horny now, and i've been a good boy for a few days, time to go off and suck

[incitatus]

face the monster
Apparently he already has...:eek:


There's no way I could improve on all the good advice already given. So I won't even try.










p.s. Irish, clean1, Congrats! Yes, one day at a time.
- (I fought back the beast of alcohol before it took over.)

[airhog]

I wish i could suck myself off! :D

[jennaflower]

ah.. but then airhog.. you wouldn't have time for us. :(

[Vigil]

Reminds me of the review I saw of Madonna's book "sex"

Difficult to read with one hand!