Anally Orgasmic???

[divot109]

Do some women actually achieve orgasm as a result of anal sex?

[SexKittten_18]

I've never done anal before.....never got the courage so I'm curious to know too...:D

[pepsigirl]

well, i dont have an anal orgasm, but i have a normal orgasm. anal sex is so erotic and so taboo, it excites me. doesn't take much for me to cum. :)

[horseman12]

had an ex girlfriend in tx. who loved anal sex she claimed it made her have stronger orgasm's, and i would have to say i believe her after seeing the results!!

[ericthered]

Well, one member of our partnership assures that she goes along with Pepsigirl exactly.

[pepsigirl]

what eric? your partner agrees with me, is that what you meant?

[SexKittten_18]

I have a question....does it hurt the first time you have anal sex?

[whatswithme69]

i have a question too...how does it feel for the guy to put his cock inside a girls butt?

[krzykrn]

I love performing anal, my last lover had a bad experince so she didn't try for a long time but she trusted me and took me by suprise one day by placing me in that sacred place. Since that one time she loved it and she actually squirted once it felt so good for her.

As for it hurting, it should never hurt if done correctly. You just need to warm up to it and start slow. First rule: use lots of lubricant and make sure it will not irritate her skin. Start by massaging her anus in slow circlers and make sure to use a generous dollop of lube. Play with her clit to help her relax, then when she is ready, slowly insert a digit of your finger inside of her. Let her set the pace if you can, do not push, let her suck up your finger and accept it.

Once she gets used to one digit, slowly press some more and let her suck up your second digit...repeat until your finger is inside of her. Let her get used to the feeling, don't move yet. After she is comfortable, move your finger a little bit forward and then back, this will stretch out her anal passage a little, and can feel very pleasurable. Now slide your finger in and out slowly, apply more lube if need be, there is never too much.

She will eventually get used to this, now repeat but use two finger, this will help stretch her out to accept something bigger. Another alternative is to get a varied set of butt plugs with different sizes, I personally like the fingers because I like to feel what I am doing :) Once she can take two fingers, go for broke, again, make sure you are properlly lubed up, and gently push into her anus with the head of your penis.

Now to help in this effort, your lover should relax, and push outward with her anal muscles as if (this is going to sound a little gross but you will get the idea) she were farting or taking a bowel movement. The rectum works differently from the vagina as things are meant to come out, not into the anal passage. Move in slowly, again, let her set the pace, once she gets used to the feeling, move in another inch, ect until you are completely inside of her.

Wait a few minutes, caress her back, her shouldrs, her breasts, reach around and stroke her clit, make her feel good and relaxed. Then slowly move in and out of her, short strokes at first then move to longer ones as the pleasure mounts and she is able to take you completely. Now just enjoy the feelings and the inevitable journey to bliss :)

Oh and as for the feeling, it is definitly different from vaginal penetration, it is much tighter around the sphincter area, causing pleasurable sensations. Try it and see, I hope this helps, take care.

[pepsigirl]

well.....i'll tell you about my first time. i look at too much porn and a lot of it happens to be anal, so after much though i decided i wanted to try it. we were going at it doggie style and i told him to put it in my ass. well, he was quite surprised, but give me a chance to change my mind. got out the KY and put it all over his dick. he had never done it before either, so yes it hurt me. but only until he got past the point of the sphincter muscle and then it was easier to deal with. after a couple minutes it was very exciting, although their was a slight amount of pain. everytime i have had anal since there is the pain of entry and some pain during, i still like it and want to do it. i don't do it very often. i suppose for someone who may do it often that they don't have pain, but i do it once every several months, but in a way i like a little pain. it's for you to decide if you want to do it or not, but i think it is the most erotic thing ever.

[Lorelei]

I always have orgasms via anal sex. Actually, the vibrations of the pumping movement causing the clit to vibrate helps in anal orgasms.

Right now, my car has a little rough standing idle, and the vibrations really turns me on. I have felt close to having an orgasm without touching my body at all, just from my vibrating car alone.

[pepsigirl]

also, the first person i had anal with refused to touch my ass with his finger, so i suppose that had something to do with me not being ready. now my current lover....sometimes he rims me first, and then he coats his finger with ky and gets me ready there as well as his cock, but he is much more endowed, so of course it's gonna hurt more than the first guy. :D

[rabbit]

Anal is a lot of fun if done correctly. First rule is, of course, a generous amount of lube. Second is for the guy to wear a condom because cum can cause infections for her. Third, go slow at first...ease it in SLOWLY and give her a chance to get used to your cock.

Lorelei, you are lucky to be able to cum from anal sex...my experience is that not many women can do it.

rabbit

[Pussy Willow]

I've had limited experience with anal sex. I tried it a few times...

Hubby loved it (duh), but I just couldn't get into it, it hurt to much.

BUT, I like having a small dildo in my but while he's fucking my

pussy, it does make for a stronger orgasm !!!!!!

[Lorelei]

For the first time doing anal, I think a woman should be on her side in bed with her top leg slightly up and pushed forward. Top leg slightly bent. Spoon Style fucking. That's the most relaxed way for me, for anal. But maybe everyone is different....

When I was new at doing anal sex, I found doing it Doggie Style was harder for penetration, but it's no big deal now. :)

[quisath]

I never realized how many Seual experts we had here at Pixies....................I'm amazed.

Of the women I have known.................they either liked anal or they didn't. (and yes I take my time and yes I use lub.) It's not for everyone and I don't recommend it if your not Hygenically aware.