Does Size Really Matter?

[Sweet Thing]

When hubby and I met, he was a virgin. I was experienced and he worried that I might not be satisfied with the size of his cock. He is an athlete and you know how guys brag about size and all that other macho stuff while in the locker room. I assured him that size really didn't concern me. I am quite satisfied with his average size cock...slender and about 6 inches when hard.

I read a lot of stories where the guy has a huge 10 inch cock or even bigger...really, the thought of a cock that big and some that I have seen on the net, scares me...I've had three kids after all...some of the cocks I have seen make me cringe in pain...a cock that big would be like having another baby. LOL

So I ask you all...does size really matter?

[happybobo]

Hey Sweet Thing,

I couldn't help but to giggle after reading your post, because I think you answered your own question. please read qoute...

"I am quite satisfied with his average size cock..."

Size does matter....Having said that, I (a guy) hold no grudge toward women for being that way.

[Sweet Thing]

I guess that I didn't make myself clear. I was asking if size really mattered to other people...women and men. I know how I feel, but I wanted to get other people's opinions and thoughts.

BTW, I am glad that you don't hold a grudge. LOL

[happybobo]

I think this question will always have gender appropriate answers. For example, my measurements are 7 1/4 x 5 1/2 and from what I've read this is slightly above average...should I be satisfied? probably so...Am I satisfied? no way...I think most guys (excluding all Long Dong Silvers) are never satisfied with their size, no matter what it is.

[intrigued]

I am satisfied with my size, i believe as long as it gets the job done then why worry about it. Also there is more than one way to tackle an orgasm fro a woman, I love to give my girl oral, I could stay down ther all day if she would let me, lol. But I agree with happy it is a gender based.

[jonny]

For guys there really is nothing you can do about your given size, other than foreign enhancers. I personally have realized that those that brag about their size, really dont have much sexual expierances outside thier own bathroom and understand that there are plenty of girls, just like Sweet Thing that could be content with their SO's size. As long a couple can realize just how to take each other over the top, size doesnt matter.

[Pussy Willow]

I agree with those who are happy with an avaerage size man.

A 10" would be too big !!!!!

[smallguy]

Having a very small penis is a life defining thing. When I say small I mean small not slightly below average. It affects every single aspect of your life. That might sound dumb to some people but you simply can't appreciate what it's like unless you've lived with it.

[kleclere]

I'm satified with my size. Don't think it should matter as long (no pun) it gets both off it is fine. If you happen to be small there are other things to use to help get her off. It's not the quantity but the quality that should matter. I've heard this before.

[SexKittten_18]

I guess for me size does matter in a way, not how much he has in length, but as long as its thick enough then I'm happy. As long as he has enough to hit the right spot and he's thick enough to fill up the space completely I'm in heaven ^.^

[Lorelei]

Actually when you think about, the longer the cock, the more sexual adventurous things you can do. Or at least make it easier to do like:

Having sex Froggie Style--When the woman is lying flat on her stomach, and the guy gets on top of her and enters her from behind inside her pussy.

Having sex while both people are standing.

Also, a long cock is better for Glory Holes. I think your cock needs to be at least 6 inches for Glory Hole sex.

[Sharni]

Size doesn't matter to me at all...

[ericthered]

Interesting points from Lorelei - unusally long cocks can reach in from awkward positions. But think of all the close contact positions you'd have to give up. Lie your man on his back on the floor. Squat over him and slide down his pole. If you can bounce up and down feeling comfortably full, good for you both. If you can't reach bottom without feeling you're about to be shish-kebabed and you have to move very carefully, oh well, that's life.

Personally I prefer to have a lady free to bounce up and down without a care.

[pepsigirl]

i hate it when i'm riding a cock and it keeps slipping out......and they say i'm raising too far up, but i don't think so..........lol

[whatswithme69]

Originally posted by SexKittten_18
I guess for me size does matter in a way, not how much he has in length, but as long as its thick enough then I'm happy. As long as he has enough to hit the right spot and he's thick enough to fill up the space completely I'm in heaven ^.^

so...does that mean u like mine? lol

[SexKittten_18]

yes that means I like yours hun. :rolleyes: lol, and I will for a very long time ^.^

[Vigil]

I don't think size can mean more sexual pleasure for a man. But the bigger boys do suffer more erectile problems as they get older and other issues.

And whilst it may thrill to look at, play with and feel as it fills, bear in mind that a larger cock can inhibit. If your partner is average or smaller, you can't go wild with your passion and you have to limit the amount of time you have penetrative sex. This is a serious passion killer, I've read one of the pixies ladies saying she left a guy because his cock was too big and it hurt so she never enjoyed sex. How many girls really want a thick 8 inch plus cock up their arse outside their fantasies?

If you are in the average bracket you should be happy. The guys at either end of the spectrum have issues to deal with.