Pixies Place Forums - What makes a woman good in bed?

Vigil

12-01-2002, 03:02 AM

Simple question really.

Men - what have you experienced that rates a woman great at sex?

Or Ladies - what is your claim to fame?

Steph

12-01-2002, 07:24 AM

the willingness to try almost anything!

Lilith

12-01-2002, 08:40 AM

I think being open minded and eager to please along with being secure enought to be able to enjoy my body and his..........as for a specific talent.....I am a great tease and know how to make him practically beg for it;)

RandyGal

12-01-2002, 09:44 AM

Awww MANnnnnnnnn Lilith...do you give lessons?

PUHLEEEESE teach me how to make him beg...pretty please????

:D :p

GermanSteve

12-01-2002, 10:33 AM

Yes, being openminded is great, and if she can take you as you are. Specific things are not that important then, although I´d like to find out what exactly Lilith is talking about :D

jennaflower

12-01-2002, 10:36 AM

for me.. it would be enthusiasm and a willingness to try just about anything....

I have been told on several occassions that I provide the best blowjob.. however.. I have never really heard of a man getting a bad one.. so I take that compliment in stride :) LOL

PantyFanatic

12-01-2002, 01:26 PM

Being there!

(from there it’s on you):cool:

ericthered

12-02-2002, 05:53 AM

Being open-minded is great; being dirty minded is even better.

Never assume assume your man won't get off on something as crude and simple as..... whatever. There is no limit to male simplicity.

Ladies love to be wooed. OK girls - you deserve it. But not all the time for goodness sake. It's got to be your turn to ring his bell and press his buttons sometimes. Go ahead, feel free, he'll love you for it.

evandar

12-02-2002, 07:32 AM

Originally posted by jennaflower
I have never really heard of a man getting a bad one.. so I take that compliment in stride :) LOL

I've had a bad blowjob before.. my ex, ex, girlfriend used to like using her teeth in a slightly painfull way.. We talked about it and she (used) to do it very well.. But there is such a thing as a bad one =)

Booger

12-02-2002, 08:34 AM

a woman who know what she wants and isn't shy about telling you nad is willing to try new thiongs

Wombat

12-02-2002, 08:45 AM

any woman who's going to get involved in the fun and not just lay there like a dead fish

Oldfart

12-02-2002, 08:49 AM

Good in bed is mainly wanting to be there with you and

wanting to please you, accepting your pleasing as well.

Sex is also good, LOL.

4youreyesonly

12-02-2002, 09:09 AM

Variety - always variety, keep him guessing what's going to happen next . . .

SexKittten_18

12-02-2002, 01:11 PM

Apparently my tongue is my claim to fame. My bf absolutely loves it. ^.^

Vigil

12-03-2002, 01:56 AM

A passionate uninhibited joy in sex - seems to be coming through here.

I can't disagree with that. I would add the playfulness and a need to be satisfied. Do the guys agree that there isn't anything much better than seeing a job well done?

RUMFUN13

12-03-2002, 03:56 AM

open frank sexual conversation

fzzy

12-04-2002, 12:57 PM

"Good in bed????" Geez and I've been working so hard at being "Bad" in bed!!!! ;)

T-S

12-04-2002, 01:33 PM

a pulse ;) :D

ScottWaz

12-04-2002, 07:30 PM

she doesnt have to be amazing at everything.....no one is.....but i would have to say effort is very sexy.....aslong as she wants to have fun......thats all that really matters

Nuelaan

12-06-2002, 03:28 AM

Confidence and outgoingness

woody368

12-06-2002, 03:54 AM

Ha T-S!
You ask so much of a lady! What girl could keep up to that?

For me, it is playfulness and enthusiasm. A cuddler & kisser would be nice too.

Nice smile is up there too.

Woody

Vigil

12-07-2002, 04:16 AM

Bad is good FZZY

There was a little girl
who had a little curl
right in the middle
of her forehead

when she was good
she was very very good
but when she was bad
she was better

Peacelul

01-13-2003, 03:02 PM

Seems a little soft but I think someone who listens and is open minded.
Has a sense of humour but serious when needed and willing to learn about themselves as well as there partner.

dude33

01-13-2003, 04:11 PM

I think the willingness to experiment, being comfortable with your body, and most of all have a sense of humor. Sex really is kind of funny if you think about it.

celticangel

01-13-2003, 04:12 PM

I guess a willingness to learn from my partner and be willing to trust enough to broaden my outlook helps a wee bit----oh, and trying to make him feel as good as he makes me!

IAKaraokeGirl

01-13-2003, 05:14 PM

Passion, passion, and more passion.

madmax67

01-13-2003, 05:57 PM

A couple of things. Fitness (for both of you) is actually very good. You can go longer, use those muscles better, and not feel completely dead afterwards (......oh, that's the point? darn :D ).

Apart from that, being attentive to your partners pleasure as well as your own is the most important thing.

dm383

01-13-2003, 06:49 PM

Originally posted by Vigil
Do the guys agree that there isn't anything much better than seeing a job well done?

Absolutely mate.... and FEELING it too!

Have to agree with others too, that if both are willing to talk about likes/dislikes, it makes for a much better time! I hadn't even slept with my girlfriend yet, but I knew a lot of the things she liked and most of what she didn't..... and one or two of the things she wasn't sure of, she IS now!! (I think!:confused: ) Radically different to jsut about everyone else I've ever been with ~ and one of the things I love most about her... she is open & honest about all kinds of things ~ very refreshing.

Sorry to go on....... got my "talkin' head" on tonight! :o

DM

denny

01-13-2003, 07:30 PM

Passion, imagination and lack of inhibition.

Missy1965

01-18-2003, 02:21 AM

If you are totally comfortable with who you are with there is no limit to the possibilities. It's a great feeling to know how much I am pleasing my partner.

inman

01-28-2003, 05:07 AM

bEING GOOD IN BED IS A TALENT
A WOMAN CAN BE GOOD IN BED IF SHE ENJOYS SEX WITH LOVE.

Irish

01-28-2003, 07:22 PM

Wanting to do things with you and not having false embarrassment.Being natural& not trying to impress. Irish

el barto

01-28-2003, 10:11 PM

some has been said already in some form or another, but to me, a few different things make a woman great in bed...

- willingness to try 'stuff' and an imagination to come up with some
- natural beauty goes a *long* ways with me
- knowing what to do and give to you, without having to tell them entirely
- lots of energy!

there are others, but those are first that come to my mind.

Passion Please

01-29-2003, 01:44 AM

I like all the answers above....security openminded willing to try the new....and above all PASSIONATE...giving ones all..losing onself in the act.....

ericthered

01-29-2003, 07:01 AM

How about feedback? It always makes me feel good if she lets me know the effect my rubbing, licking, sucking is having on her. It makes me want to do more and more. On the other hand, the ladies who lie still and silent waiting for something to happen to them, well, I guess they get as little as they deserve!

jay

01-29-2003, 09:24 AM

expierementation and being vocal about what she wants the best part of sex is knowing that she has been toaly satisfied

dannithenympho

02-04-2003, 04:10 PM

Willing to do absolutely anything!
Taking pleasure doing everything that my partner enjoys.
Teasing until he's begging.
A natural high sex drive helps a LOT - wanting to have him anywhere at anytime, and suprising him with these requests or just actions (grab him, pin him against the wall and say "I Want you NOW") :)
Tenderness - so careful to listen to my partner, notice what he loves, what he likes, and what he can do without.
And genuinely caring about whether my partner is enjoying himself as much as I am or not.