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Wombat
11-28-2002, 06:59 AM
I was wondering what everyone considered was the most intimate moment or act that they partake in with their S/O ? I don't necessarily mean a sexual moment (but it can be) but the one that gives you the warm and fuzzys and makes you feel at one with your S/O.
For me it was today in the shower with WD thinking how it doesn't get much more intimate than soaping up and washing down your partner not because it's sexy but just because you happen to have the soap. After I'd washed her all over she washed me and then we washed each others hair . Nothing particularly sexual about it but it was so nice ,and yes, intimate and highlighted to me how comfortable we are with each other that there was no awkward fumbling or nervous giggling or the cliche' quips that sometimes come when you're not sure you should be doing it and that gives them an out if they don't want it.

Well that's mine so what's yours?

Wombat
11-29-2002, 01:20 AM
I guess that the complete lack of responses means there's a heap of sex going on around here but not a whole lot of intimacy. :D

jennaflower
11-29-2002, 01:24 AM
LOL... actually.. in my case.. neither exists :( WAAAAAAAAAAA

krzykrn
11-29-2002, 02:20 AM
Well...I am with Jenna lol, being single and all, but on the occasions I have had someone, showering or giving your lover a bath is very intimate, but something that I find very intimate is spooning. Just being close to her, pressed closed against her, holding her close...damn I miss that lol.

jennaflower
11-29-2002, 09:11 PM
yep krzykrn.. I would have to agree.. that spooning is something that I miss and consider to be one of the more intimate acts..

another one.. just feeling a mans hand pressed against the small of my back.. gets me every time :)

Steph
11-30-2002, 08:39 AM
When our friends suffered a stillbirth this summer, T & I looked after their toddler. The little guy trusts us but knew something was wrong and wouldn't sleep the entire day. We were exhausted and couldn't show the little guy we were really upset. When he finally went to sleep, I held T as he wept about our friends' loss. Very intimate (but heartbreaking at the same time).