Oral sex poll

[Steph]

Do you give and recieve?

Oral sex is a major topic here - how do I get it, how do I get my SO to perform, help me perform oral better, etc.

I'm interested in your thoughts and experiences. I personally love giving and receiving (as many of you wonderful pixies do) but I also know a lot of you aren't satisfied in this area.

You can select more than one choice in this poll.

[theICEmancumeth]

I love it both ways, but if i had to choose, i would pick give every time ;)

[Steph]

And that's why we love you and your avatar, theICEmancumeth :D

[Sharni]

I'm more of a giver than a taker...

It makes me horny to have a squirming moaning fulfilled partner.. :D :fly: :D

[Vintage Vixen]

omg...i luv to givie its ahuge turn on for me because i know his spots and i can getat them easily,,,,as iv drivivng down the highway....NOW THATS ATURN ON.

[GermanSteve]

Receiving is nice, I needn´t do anything, just enjoy - With giving (although I would like) I have not yet made really good experiences, I can´t stand the taste very much and the tongue becomes tired much too quickly.

[horseman12]

i love to give as well as receive, although can be distracting but i find thier is nothing like a beautiful set of thighs around my head while those gorgeous lips are wrapped my other head

[jennaflower]

If I HAD to choose.. I would choose to give everytime.

Don't get me wrong.. I do enjoy receiving.. BUT I have very limited experience doing so. Of all the partners I have had in my past, they tended to be more into receiving themselves and less into pleasuring me...

Another factor.. trust. For me personally... and I don't know why.. but receiving orally places me in (my mind) the most vulnerable of positions.. In order for me to REALLY be enjoy it.. I have to be able to relax and give up control completely.. and that isn't something I have found easy to do with just any man..

[Sugarsprinkles]

I love receiving as well as giving. Sadly, I have not received often.

Prior to S/O #1 Only one or two b/f's performed oral on me. Truthfully, the very first time it happened I was totally shocked!! I had never had a guy even attempt to put his mouth "down there!" He didn't give me a chance to resist and OMG!!! I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately, we broke up soon afterwards.

S/O #1 used has never given. I guess maybe his feelings are kinda similar to GermanSteve's. He never really has said why he won't, I'm just assuming he finds it distasteful or gross.

S/O #2 is very willing and seems to enjoy it as much as I do. :D

As for giving.......I LOVE GIVING!! I love to give of myself to bring another pleasure. And it also gives me a wonderful, sexy feeling of power....that *I* can take my man from completely soft to rock hard to intercourse to release to total satisfaction...all by myself. WOW!! What a feeling!!

S/O #1 has never, ever asked or demanded that I give. I've always done it because I enjoy it! It was almost more for my own pleasure than his. Due to some personal and medical issues I haven't been 'allowed' to give for quite some time. I'm hoping this situation will change in the not too distant future.

S/O #2 I've given a few times. I assume he enjoyed it.....he didn't complain afterward.....;):D:D

I don't know how common this opinion is, but I don't like receiving at the same time I'm trying to give. I find it very distracting. I love to concentrate all my attention on my partner when I'm giving. :D

I didn't mean to write a book........sorry I was so long-winded. :eek:

[krzykrn]

Jenna, I think you make a very good point on why some women are uncomfortable with receiving oral, I hope you one day find the trust in someone to receive a mind blowing orgasm from someone giving you the best oral sex you ever had :)

I like to give more than receive to be honest but only because...hmm well I don't think I am ready to go into that yet lol sorry I don't feel comfortable enough talking about it on a public board. But like Sharniqua said, there is nothing like having a squirming parnter underneath you moaning, groaning, her hips bucking uncontrollably off the sheets...yum, that is why I love to give oral.

[Steph]

When I mentioned giving and getting, I didn't mean for it to be 69 but it's interesting that some of you find it distracting :) Now that I think of it, when I'm participating in 69, one of us usually gets distracted at a high point. :)

[Booger]

69 need I say more

[Wombats Dinner]

Love both giving and recieving oral, was married for 9yrs and never knew what I was missing out on as my ex disliked oral sex, but now with my new SO Wombat "WOW" the most amazing oral experiences are being had to the point of me actually passing out.. yummo..:) :D

[Wombat]

Like the song says ;
"I like it both ways",

mmmmmmmmm,
:D :D :D :D

[sassylove]

I am definitely more of a receiver than a giver. My poor husband. :D

[theICEmancumeth]

Originally posted by Steph
And that's why we love you and your avatar, theICEmancumeth :D

:D thank you ;)

[Lorelei]

I love giving and receiving. I don't favor one over the other.

[axe31]

i love it both ways too the feel the flavors knowing how
hot you are geting them /the feel as they go down on you
the look in there eye as you all your nerves scream with
pleasure and the final expolsion erm his it geting warm in here

[Murphy]

Sugarsprinkles....No, I have no complaints....

Jenna....."Trust me."

[vampeyes]

I love to give and recieve!!!!! Oral to me is the ultimate way to please a partner.. you are showering them with all of your attention with only one thing in mind - thier pleasure which turns me on immensely when my partner really gets into what I am doing to them. I have to admit with hubby I do receive more than give but mainly because hubby likes it that way :D And as far as 69 .. I much prefer 68 lmao .. its just to much for me to concentrate on my partner while they are licking me to distraction ;)

[T-S]

Well giving gets me so hard so I love giving and receiving.

[Akasha]

Recieving is ok. but i have never had a really good oral expirence, and i really am not too sure about giving.. i have had REALLY bad expirences with that one... i can do the sucking ok but when it comes time to finish up, i freeze.... cant help it.... so i havent had the best when its comes to the topic at hand... or mouth as it were! lol :)

[Irish]

SS---I think that you'll find that NOT MANY men will complain when
recieving.There is no such thing as bad oral sex.Some are better
then others but none are bad! Irish
P.S. At least in my experience.

[Steph]

That brings me to another reason I started this poll. My sister's boyfriend is a cop and he told me not long ago he caught a john receiving oral sex from a hooker. When A asked the john why he does it, the guy said, "My wife doesn't go down on me so every week I visit a hooker."

[kleclere]

I enjoy giving and receiving. The wife doesn't let me give very often because she says it is to intense for her. And the receiving isn't that often because she doen't like it that much.

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I've always enjoyed both giving and receiving. The few times I've received it have always been amazing, but now that I'm just sleeping with an ex (now my fuck buddy) oral has never been part of the picture, even back when we dated...that's been going on 2 years now, so as long as this continues, I don't forsee any oral action in the immediate future :( But if I find someone new, I'm jumping ship right away!

I also have to agree with Sugarsprinkles about getting distracted...while 69 is great, once I'm at a certain point I just can't focus because I'm overwhelmed with pleasure! :D

[joys]

In fact, I love it both ways. My wife does not much like me doing oral on her, don't know maybe because she cums too quick, but she loves to give me.

My best, watching TV and smoking and having a drink while she sucks me for hours :D

[airhog]

Originally posted by GermanSteve
Receiving is nice, I needn´t do anything, just enjoy - With giving (although I would like) I have not yet made really good experiences, I can´t stand the taste very much and the tongue becomes tired much too quickly.

I find the taste excellent myself, although I have had partners that were strong. I used to get a sore more alot, but try not to move your jaw, and try not to move it left to right too much, that will just make it sore quicker

[Xpose]

She gives to me more than I give her, and it's so damm good!
But when I am sucking on her pussy and I taste her juices, it's the best turn on ever.

[pepsigirl]

seems like i give more than i receive, but i'd rather be the receiver. :)

[toomanystrokes]

I wouldn't know about receiving...I've never had a BJ. Honestly! It is becoming more of an issue with me as I grow older. Maybe for my fortieth birthday in a few years! But, I would say that three out of every four times we have sex, I provide her with oral enjoyment. Maybe I ought to cut her off until I get some. Unless, some of the ladies in here would want to do the "stranger" thing like Bronzedozzy spoke of with a decent fella like me?!

[surfinbiboy]

recieving is all fine and dandy, but the real treat is your parteners
hips and ass thrusting in your mouth or on your tongue as they cum

[Steph]

Tip I just read in Cosmo: if you're performing cunnilingus, lick the alphabet on her clit!

[toomanystrokes]

Been there...done that. I just always make sure I dot my "I's" and cross my "T's"!:D

[Grumble]

I enjoy recieving but adore giving. I suppose I just love giving pleasure and hearing the moans and the legs wrapped ourond my head the thrusting of the hips, it is just such a wonderful thing to be able to give your partner such joy.

Yes steph I have done the alphabet and even did supercalafragilisticexialladousous inside the labia but deliberatly missing the clit so the build up and excitement grew so that when I did lick her clit she went absolutely wild. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Unfortunatly my now seperated wife of 15 years did not like oral either way :(((

[dicksbro]

I love giving and receiving and can hardly wait until I've recovered enough for both! :D :D

[scotzoidman]

I think we should stop the poll right now... we have 69 votes for "I like giving and receiving"...

[sexXxyasiarican]

WoW!! I want it all, It turns me on to give him head and to get him all moaning. But with him just as much as it turns me on it turns him on when he's eating my pusssy.

[Oldfart]

Let's be christian here folks.

'Tis better to give than to receive.

Then even nicer to give them a chance to give.

[Sweet Thing]

Either way...I LOVE to give but then again, I LOVE to receive...can you say 69?

[pepsigirl]

I love giving & receiving. My sweetie loves giving (the best at that). And my sweetie loves receiving. good stuff!

[martian]

Of course receiving is *wonderful* but. . .


Giving can be so amazing. Getting into the groove and realizing that you are pleasing your partner absolutely, unselfishly.

I remember in college, my freshman year girlfriend had her very first orgasm that way.

Just knowing that you are sending pleasure through someone. . .


Definately a giver. . .