More orgasmic as you get more experienced?

[Nuelaan]

All the women in my past had been well experienced, and now I am engaged to a woman who is not very experienced at all. She isn't highly orgasmic, where the others had been. I was wondering if the ladies out there felt like the more O's you have, the easier it is to have more, or if its just a personel thing that doesn't change much?

[Lilith]

I think age can be a factor only if a woman has spent that time getting to know her body......young women can be just as in tune and some older women still have no clue as to what would please them.

[Nuelaan]

I didn't mean age, I was more curious if the more times you had sex the easier it became to orgasm.

[Scarlett]

I have gotten more orgasmic as I have gotten older. I don't know if it's age or experience, but I am not complaining :D

[Wicked Wanda]

For me, it was definitely experience! I didn't always orgasm when I first started having sex. As I grew more experienced I learned what pleased me, what excited me, and what sent me through the roof!!

WW

[RandyGal]

Oh yes...for sure!

Good ------>great sex is always trial and error. You won't get it right the first time and if you aren't inhibited you can learn a lot about your own body with each encounter.

So often though, the subject is viewed as such a naughty one, that people don't bother to learn nor do they often KNOW what they're missing.

[Lilith]

Nuelaan~ I have learned more about my body in the past year, then in all 32 prior combined. I know what pleases me and along with that I have discovered how many different ways I can use my body to please a man and that has only added to my confidenceand self-awareness which in turn leads to a more rewarding sex life all around.

[Nuelaan]

Thanks all for the input.

[Steph]

Everything Lilith said! Does your friend masturbate? It really helps you learn what turns your crank.