01-29-2006, 07:29 AM
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Nope!!
Ever since my surgery last year my looks have gone way down.I'm still ok but not the way I use to be.
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Just like a trucker to keep driving long and hard.
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01-29-2006, 04:25 PM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
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Ironic how incredibly sexy people don't see themselves that way, isn't it?
I, of all people, should understand why, but having similar feelings and thoughts doesn't explain it. I never thought I was all that sexy, and getting the feedback I did here really helped boost my self-esteem. What I always thought of as shortcomings were praised, and so many people looked within me to see things I didn't.
People around me notice the difference in me now too. It's like a light inside of me has been turned on. ( no jokes from that fuzzy lamp in the corner! )
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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01-30-2006, 02:16 AM
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MSGME!
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Baltimore
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Absolutely. I'm sober,confident and generally don't give a fuck.
Let me explain: I used to be obsessed about how I looked before I walked out the door,checkin' this...fixin' that..etc. just to run to the store to buy milk!Now I just grab my keys and run out the door,sometimes in sweats and an old t-shirt and sometimes with a "I've been slummin'" hairstyle.I get more looks and smiles now than I ever did.....because I just don't give a fuck and the confidence to think that way shows regardless of how I'm dressed.
Note:don't get the wrong impression,I am a clean person,I just don't take a shower before I go to a convenience store!!
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04-12-2013, 04:01 PM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
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Bump...any updates?
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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04-13-2013, 05:13 AM
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Just me.
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: West central Illinois
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Hmmm ... probably about the same. which, given my age, might be considered a plus.
Pixies definitely helps a person in touch with how they feel about sex and their own sexuality. But, what else would expect from the best site on the web? <---- Make that a smiling shrug.
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04-13-2013, 08:04 AM
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No is the truthful answer, all in the mind so need to work on that.
Check back with me in 5 years lol
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04-13-2013, 09:03 AM
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Yankee in Dixie
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Tennessee
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I really feel no change over the last five years. I've always been fairly comfortable in my own skin, though never thought of myself as much of a sexual creature.
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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf
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04-15-2013, 10:48 AM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
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Pixies did so much to bring me out of my shell and help me to feel comfortable with myself. I'm not surprised to see examples of how it's done that with other people as well.
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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04-15-2013, 04:23 PM
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Causer of Unrest
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Join Date: Jan 2004
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No question I feel sexier now than I did 5 years ago. Pixies did a lot when I first started 9 years ago to help me view myself as sexy, and that formed a foundation for what I still feel. But for me a lot of it is maturing, knowing myself, and accepting myself. You spend a lot of your youth in self-doubt and self-critique. There have been points in my life where I was empirically more sexy, according to general physical standards, but true sexiness shines from the inside out, I think. I think of my younger self, and while she might've been cuter and more fit, I'll take the current me, thanks. She knows what to do with what she has.
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04-15-2013, 05:33 PM
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Yes, indeed I do feel sexier now than I felt then!
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04-16-2013, 01:54 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AZRedHot
No question I feel sexier now than I did 5 years ago.
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I didn't think that was possible.
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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04-16-2013, 04:03 PM
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Causer of Unrest
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Arizona
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Quote:
Originally Posted by WildIrish
I didn't think that was possible.
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You're very sweet. But the answer is in the question: you asked if we FELT sexier, not if we were, empirically sexier (if such a thing can be measured; I don't think so). But I'm pretty sure you'd have to feel me first to start that line of scientific inquiry.
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04-19-2013, 12:19 PM
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Goddess Of the night
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: PA
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somes i feel sexier now.. i am more confident in myself and my sexuality.
I hve since been diagnosed with fibromylgia so sort of took wind out of sales along with other issues but i am still me and i am happy with that
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I love the night
I love the element of danger and the ecstasy of flight,
I love the night
I love to dance with a stranger and to feel his delight,
And when the dancing is through, I kick off my shoes,
And I listen to the beating of his heart
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04-19-2013, 05:19 PM
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♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
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Hard to believe this thread is 7 years old. Lots of sexy things have happened in those 7 years.
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04-23-2013, 11:24 AM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
Posts: 21,709
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Time flies like an arrow. Fruit flies like a banana.
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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