05-08-2007, 06:24 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: England
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((((((((((Mikaylasmummy))))))))))
You know I'm a huge supporter of you! I like you and I know just how much this must hurt. Emotions are amplified 10 times after you've had a baby, so it's hard to keep things in perspective.
You must do what is best for your daughter and yourself and ONLY YOU know what that is.
Take care of yourself sweetie
Lou
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05-08-2007, 07:45 AM
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Goddess Bitch
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: PA
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(((((mikaylasmummy))))))
I am so sorry you are going through this right now. i hope it works out for you.
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05-08-2007, 08:42 AM
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pixie of the wood
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Join Date: Apr 2004
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if he had said "i don't want to be married again because i've been there and i'm afraid to take that chance" or "i care for you but i just can't get married", i could understand but he came right out and said i don't care for you enough. i think that's a pretty big signal that he isn't worthy of your devotion. people list a billion and one reasons why they might love someone, or what they love about their SO but rarely do they say because THEY love ME, and that's gotta be the biggest reason of all to love someone. i think it's time you move on but like lou said, you must do what's right for you and only you can know what that is. good luck, and much peace to you (((hug)))
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05-10-2007, 02:43 AM
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Bike Fanatic
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Montreal
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I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, especially now
I'd have to agree with the ladies. You need to do what is best for you. You can talk to people, try to get opinions, to help you decide, but... the bottom line is, no one knows the full story exept for you and him. So the bottom line is you have to figure out what is best for you and Mikayla. It's hard, the descision hurts, at times, all the options seem wrong, seek counsel from friends and family, but only you know what is best for the two of you. It is very nice of you to be concerned about his son, but right now, you need to concentrate on You and your daughter. We can't save the world, but if everyone does their part, the world will be a great place. Don't be affraid to do what you need to, it is important for you to have a happy healthy environment for you and your daughter.
I can't believe what he said, insensitive, or just dumb.
Don't be affraid, once you've made your final descision, you will realize it was the right one, and things will become easier.
Stay Strong, take care
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05-12-2007, 03:52 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Houston, Texas
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Just remember this: You are woman--strong, independent, and beautiful and no one can take that away from you!
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