08-14-2003, 10:25 AM
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Do you think it's sexy to be someone's "first"?
Some people take a lot of pride in being someone's first (often referred to as earning their "white wings"). I've known some guys who treat it like a score. A girl I knew told me it turned her on to fantasize about being my first, because you never forget that person.
Any thoughts/experiences?
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08-14-2003, 10:32 AM
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Junior Member
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Being someones first is a special thing. Not just for the recently deflowered virgin but for the other person as well. The virgin chose that person to give a special gift to. I have been lucky enough to have been with 6 virgins. While they may never forget their first time, I will never forget the present they gave me.
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08-14-2003, 11:11 AM
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Ethical Epicurean
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Not so crazy about being first,but give me those sloppy seconds.heh heh heh
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08-14-2003, 11:36 AM
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Wanting More
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The guy I lost my virginity to, also lost his to me. That was special...and I belive it'll always be memorable in the other person's mind.
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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple
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08-14-2003, 11:38 AM
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~*Geeky Girl*~
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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author
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08-14-2003, 11:43 AM
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Wanting More
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Oooh, now that is a motto to live by, IAKG!
*Scribbles that into my notebook*
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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple
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08-14-2003, 11:52 AM
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~*Geeky Girl*~
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<-----has added that life philosophy to her signature.
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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author
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08-14-2003, 12:22 PM
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IAKGirl~ you rule btw!
I don't wanna be somebody's first. Too much responsibility Then they'd be all ruined for anyone else
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08-14-2003, 12:30 PM
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Bastard of Member
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I want experience...virginity is overrated
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08-14-2003, 12:33 PM
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Brilliant IAKG!
Any first is special. But I have to say the few times I was someone else's proper first...I've been more wrapped up in making it special for them than really been about enjoying it myself. So while it's fun, I don't think I'd have called it especially sexy.
But that's just me.
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08-14-2003, 12:33 PM
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~*Geeky Girl*~
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Can you imagine? All of these men running around, searching desperately for something equal to the spoiling Lil and I already gave them?
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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author
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08-14-2003, 12:34 PM
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I was my hubby's first. I had had sex with around ten guys before I met DH. Our first time together was the first time I had ever made love. KWIM?
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08-14-2003, 12:36 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by IAKaraokeGirl
Can you imagine? All of these men running around, searching desperately for something equal to the spoiling Lil and I already gave them?
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rotflmbfao~ a tragedy indeed
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08-14-2003, 02:25 PM
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Magnificent Member
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Interesting perspectives here... I think I've already been ruined since I tend to hope for someone like those I know here on Pixies.
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08-14-2003, 02:49 PM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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As soon as I find out someone hasn't ever done something, I always want to be the first to do it with them! LOL
It's not a score card thing, just an addiction to seeing a look of pure joy when someone experiences something heavenly for the first time ever.
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