I'm just wondering what women think of a 20 year old virgin?

I've bassically been very anti-social with girls growing up. I've had girls that liked me etc, and I'm not ugly, even ugly guys get laid anyway, but that's not the point though. I've never been one to go out with a girl just for sex, it always seemed like a waste of time and effort unless I loved her. and in my last years of highschool my sex-drive plummetted through the roof, so I was hardly getting erections for the effort to get laid, this was very depressing, don't know were it went, but it came back.

I'm personally confident with it all, and am a very happy person, I'm proud, and take personal pride that I havn't stooped to low levels to get laid. There's not too many girls that interest me to the point where I want to start a relationship either. but I've got my eyes on someone, but I'm feelin sorta insecure about what to say, and it's making things hard for me. I wouldn't tell my friends because they shouldn't know anyways and they'd proabably laugh, or not. Do you think she would think anyless of me if she knew, or should I not tell her? i figure that a girl would think it's sweet that I've been saving myself for the right one, and it's more deffinite she's not gonna catch any disease from me since I'm a fresh package in manner of speaking, shows self control too. I was an ordinary horny teen once, but never gave myself the chance to get some action because my confidence wasn't very high. And now like I said I can ask any girl out with ease usually, but I don't feel right unless there is some love for the person. another side of me thinks that she'd think that I was just some loser that couldn't get laid unitl she took pity on me haha.

I'm really not sure what to think, this is one of my biggest insecurities, I havn't had any real grilfriends besides real young kissing type stuff or that are more than friends either.
what would I say if she asked about past relationships, what could I say that wouldn't sound like no girls wanted to go out with me? that really sounds pethetic, and for a guy to say he hasn't found anyone that he really loves yet seems like a lie, but it truly isn't, I've been in love with girls that didn't love me, but none that did. there has been many girls that wanted to go out with me, but like I said, I don't care if I don't like the person beyond the physical and even further. If any women reads this, I would especially like your advise and oppinions. I never actually thought to ask this question, since even close friends don't seem approachable to this problem. It's sort of an ego thing to guys how mayby girls they pull etc, and I don't know what they would think of me if they knew.

thanks.