Hi all, i am sure there are some out there who can help.

My wife recently has told me she would like to explore BDSM more. She has always enjoyed a pleasure/pain type of thing when she is really turned on. we have and she loves, restraints, blindfolds and nipple clamps, we have also recently found she enjoys being spanked when really turned on. Apparently the pleasure pain thing combined with the not quite knowing when it is coming really gets her going.

Anyway this is the first real fantasy she has shared with me and i have tried to, at the right times, get more info from her. What it is she likes, what sort of things she wants to explore etc, as i am very keen to fulfill and expand this fantasy for her. I have never been too into it myself, but as i say, she has been open and brave to share this with me and i want to show i like that and it turns me on to open up our fantasy world some more.

I guess my question is does any one have more ideas of approaches to take?

Are there some good free sites (i seem to find only paying ones and only full on ones, and ones with mainly women being sub, she is most likely a switch as she likes a little of both ideals)

i would love to find some good intro literature, pics and movies that we could watch together and experience some more

thanks in advance