Girls (or guys),
I have been given the opportunity to be with a girl sexually. She is a very good friend of mine for many years. I dont see her very often and I will be taking a trip this July. I have never had a sexual expierence with a woman. I often have thought about it and watched many porn movies, but the "hands on" expierence is just not there. Is there anything I should know? I know my own body pretty darn well, so I know what pleases me. But maybe with your expierence you could help me. I pose this question to women who have been with other women, but of course you men out there know as well. Please give me some pointers...

rollergrl,

I mailed a friend of mine whose lesbian and copied her advice below. I have excised the part where she told me I had a lot of nerve


Hope this helps,
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i think it's pretty much the same as it would be for a guy with a new woman. the dick part is different, but other than that??? take your time. too slow is always better than too fast. don't be afraid to try something new, but make sure to ask how she feels about it. don't just ask what she likes, talk about what you like too. remember that she's probably as insecure as you are. talk matters more than techinque. if you talk you'll figure the rest out. no scary toys unless you know she's ok with it.

Hey thanks....I am so excited!!!

Rollrgrl,
If your asking the question, it seems the answer is right under your nose. Or will be if you play your cards right.
I assume that she has already let you know what she desires. Go slow, and enjoy. I remember a date in college that I had no ultimate goal other than enjoying the evening. I ended up having one hell of a semester!
Let me know more about it. Eowyn


I thought the pic (if it works) very erotic.

Thanks for the pep talk! My friend has been with girls before, so she has the expierence. It is kind of funny how this all came about. I decided to share a story I wrote with her ( a girl girl story) and she basically told me about her evening with this girl in her class. I couldnt believe all this time she and I had known each other, we never talked about this interest we both had. So after her telling me what happend and me getting all wet just thinking about it, she said that WE should try. I was totally into the idea. We dont live close so I dont see her as often as I would like, but I am going to take a trip to see her in July. We have BIG plans. I am just nervous. I know she is the coolest, so I dont know why I am nervous, maybe the thought that a fantasy coming true gives me butterflies.

Look up, girl !! You lose your friend forever! I know!

what do you mean? This happened to you and you lost your friend? That sucks big time!

Yeah. I lost a friendI knew for 12 years. I knew he was in for guys and then I wanted to know how things works in the sex-act between boys. When asked him to be MY lover he just walked out of the house and since then I can only see him with other guys. He does not know I'm there. So be alert about this. If you are in for your best friend, you might lose the best you've got. A good friend does not come in the mail.
Have all my best wishes. 2TI