What a strange question, when you think about it.

imalikalotapuss, just because a lady is seeing someone doesn't

mean she has locked herself away. Marriage is different, mostly.

If you get out there and strut your stuff, show them that you are

a worthwhile person to have a friendship/fling/folly/romance with,

it's then up to the the ladies to make their value judgements whether

to stick with the current beau or strike into uncharted waters with you.

Life is too short to accept barriers which just aren't there.

If you just sit there and say "Damn, she's unavailable," she always will be.

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