I have to be honest and say that extremely fat people do not turn me on sexually.

However I am not rude to people or would have the gall to comment that they should not eat something.

I myself have a bit of middle aged spread that goes always to my tummy. Like Irish i have diabetes and take a lot of insulin so that increases appetite and some weight gain. I do not exersize enough either but i expect to be doing a lot of pushups soon, quite often in fact, with Curvy laying under me to supervise

Curvy is not waif like either. She has some pudding to hold on to and it how I like it .

So I sympathise with you Sharni, you don't deserve to be treated rudely, no one does