Wow Bestrafer Engel! That's quite a quandary!

I'm on the same wave length as jenna.....in that your mightiest tool could be your pen! Your point here was well versed......I didn't misunderstand a moment of the scenario....despite the fact that you skipped over several years.....and so I imagine that "Z" can fill in any empty spaces........as she lived them with you.

I actually have no other advice......except.......if poetry didn't work.....try just spelling it out for her. Make a list of pro's and con's of what would and wouldn't make you the ideal couple. *little hint........don't make the "wouldn't" side bigger than the "would" side!*

Best of luck hun! Put your best ink forward!

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