My first orgasm ever was with a clitoral vibrator...16 years ago.
Before that I was never able to have an orgasm no matter how hard the man tried. One day I was in a horney mood all by myself and used a massager on my clit...The warm feeling that filled me up...scared me at first...(I was 4 months pregnant at the time) I just had to pick up the phone and call my best friend.....
She told me.."Sweetie...that's was an orgasm!"....
OMG...I had had my first one!!!
After having a few hundred...I found it easier to relax and enjoy my man bringing me to orgasm....until I wanted a vaginal one....
I took me a long time to accomplish that feat....but once again I did it alone using a dildo....and it worked...once you can find that exact spot...(which I call "MY secret Spot) and move your hips in order for him to hit it...you will be in HEAVEN.....
Now..I have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms all the time...it's excellent when you have both at the same time....Ohhhh yessss....
Good luck Sweet Chastity and keep on trying!
You will succeed one day!!!