I just want a pipe to the surface so friends can pour ice water down to me.
This is a serious topic that WILL be dealt with WITHOUT exception. Like you, I think I should be the one to state what I would like done. After having to assist a couple stunned family who are not at their reasoning best for the moment, it is also a burden I don't want to leave the people I care about.
There is a box that both my kids know of, with instructions, contact numbers, notification list and receipts.
For my remains, they will be shown in a 'rented' casket for one day so my friends can talk about how much better I was, than I was, and my adversaries can discuss the opposite. There is an envelope of letters and papers and seven "it's a boy/girl" cigars that will be in my pocket. There will NOT be a shawl over my legs.
The flag will be given to my son and my service ring to my daughter. I'll be escorted to the crematorium rather than to a cemetery, in a
black hearse.
Twenty two days later, the ashes will be spread at the same remote location where our dogs ashes are and an inscribed brass marker will be driven into the ground to a prescribed depth by only the family.
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"If God didn't want you to play with it, He would have put it between your shoulder blades,..... not at the end of your arm"
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