As far as I'm concerned, I think unless life is a living hell (which it sounds like it isn't) then putting more effort in on both sides is what's called for.

If he realises that he's in serious danger of losing you, then you may find that he'll buck his ideas up about making more effort and maybe seeing a counsellor.

Don't give up so easily and don't have unrealistic expectations. It's not all heart pounding, stomach fluttering wonderfulness and the relationships that I see working are ones where both parties work hard to keep the sparks alive.

Just don't do anything stupid like decide to have a baby to keep the relationship going - that's a BAD idea!

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