I heartily agree that whether you like giving BJs makes a huge different in the enjoyment for both people. I totally agree with what diva said also, with one exception. PLEASE don't ever think that just because your partner's gag reflex is triggered means that she doesn't like what she's doing. I ADORE giving BJs, including swallowing, and really get into it. But I have a hard time taking all of my partner at times without gagging. Heck, I gag just trying to brush my back teeth! Anyway, I just don't want you guys to automatically think that it's a sure sign she really doesn't want to be giving you that BJ.

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