I find the diversity of answers to be very interesting...obviously, first loves seem to be a mixed package...

My first love was, the last time I checked, working in the garden center at The Big Orange Home Improvement Store nearby (not too far from her old homestead, which was torn down for commercial building), which means she is not only there for me to see, but has frequent contact with the wife (Mrs Zoid would like to live at Home Depot)...seeing her now has left me with no regrets, & almost none of the old feelings I once had...I do keep a few warm memories of the good times we had, & I know I used to have a few momentos tucked away, but I haven't pulled the box out in years...

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