**~First Love~**
 

1. Can you remember your first true love?
2. Can you picture them clearly?
3. Do you still think of him/her often?
4. Do you still have reminders stored away of them?
5. Do you dream of them?
6. Can you still feel their touch?
7. Can they still make you weak at the knees?
8. Do you wish you could be with them again...even if just for a while?


Just curiosity you understand ;)

Hmmmmm...... 1,2 and 3 are pretty much yes. 4, 5, 6 and 7 are all noes, and the last one...... probably, yes, but not for any carnal reasons; only to try harder to get her off the heroin that killed her.

DM

(Sorry if that puts a damper on your thread, Alassë - feel free to delete it, if you like)

In a word? Yeah...

No, time has been merciful.

Tis fine hun....honest answers are what i'm after

Yes
Yes but he was a boy/man
Every once in a while but not terribly often
Yes I think I do, in my year book or boxes of high school crap
Not in a very long time.
No but I do have some sensory memories that are associated with our teenage fumblings.
I have not seen him in 20 years so I am not sure.
Not really, I'm grateful for what he taught me but I like where I am now.

Welllllll...in my situation, it's a little different. I'll answer some of these pre-2005, if you don't mind. :)


1. Yes--I never forgot him.

2. Yes, I could.

3. I thought about him fairly frequently. I still analyzed that things that happened and I could've done differently, and I had a lot of regret.

4. No, and that made me/still makes me sad. Long story short, there was someone in my life after him who was more than a little threatened, and I was too young/naive to protect what was rightfully mine.

5. I did occasionally.

6. Yes, I could. During our first "real" conversation after reconnecting this spring, that's one of the things I told him--that I could still remember his birthday, his high school phone number, and the way he kissed me.

7. Every time I'm with him.

8. I am constantly amazed that we somehow stumbled upon each other and, on top of that, that the feelings were still there and have grown.

I am still with him....since 10th grade and things just get better every day.

Thats fantastic!!! :)


My first love was Randy ______.
I can picture him clearly but seldom think of him.
No reminders but a few pics in an album.
Don't dream of him or wish he was here.
I remember very vividly the first time he kissed me. OMG, I went weak in the knees then, I don't now, but it's a nice memory.

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Not often, and when I do it's not in a romantic way.
4. No
5. No
6. No
7. No
8. No

What's funny is if we had never married, answers 5-8 would probably be different. *shrugs*

1. Yes....definately
2. Yes....vividly
3. Yes
4. Yes
5. Yes...yesterday was the last time
6. Yes
7. My stomach still does flips when i think of him
8. Yes...but is impossible

1. Yes, of course I can. I dated him for 3 years in high school
2. I just saw him last Friday :D
3. Yes, I do. He's my best friend. :)
4. Yes. I even put a copy of one in the Pixies package. A recipe from his family.
5. No, not really....may have once or twice.
6. Yep...again, I just touched him (not THAT way!)
7. He has on occasion, yes
8. No; he is close to my heart, but not someone I want to be in a relationship with

1. Yes...vividly!
2. As he was then, yes. I hear he's bald[ing] now and I can't grasp that.
3. Yes...almost daily. Not for romantic reasons but because I have physical scars as a reminder.
4. Yes...old concert ticket stubs, pictures, official documents, etc.
5. Once in a great while he'll show up in a dream. It's usually a recurring or very similar dream as the last time I dreamt of him.
6. No, not really.
7. I doubt I'd be weak but some happy memories might make me smile.
8. I've seen him periodically through the years and could have had him back. I'm smarter than that and am very happy how my life turned out.

I find the diversity of answers to be very interesting...obviously, first loves seem to be a mixed package...

My first love was, the last time I checked, working in the garden center at The Big Orange Home Improvement Store nearby (not too far from her old homestead, which was torn down for commercial building), which means she is not only there for me to see, but has frequent contact with the wife (Mrs Zoid would like to live at Home Depot)...seeing her now has left me with no regrets, & almost none of the old feelings I once had...I do keep a few warm memories of the good times we had, & I know I used to have a few momentos tucked away, but I haven't pulled the box out in years...

yes to all. i married him. :)