When you make love, do you look in the mirror???
 

Sorry, bad music flash-back....


Ok...but do ya??? The metaphorical mirror aka the past that is.

Hey I have fucked many another lover past and present with my eyes closed but sometimes I am so focused on the here and now , the connection is so intense that not another thought comes between me and him.

Not very often really. Occasionally I might think of someone I haven't slept with, wondering what they would be like in bed.

I never reflect upon past real life experiences but sometimes, when things are really out of control, will psychologically wander to people I haven't had the pleasure of being with.

Nope, never. I'm always right with him, in the moment, in the present.

...Who do you think of? Does he look like me?


Never slag Def Leppard! :D

NEVER .................... !!!!!!!!!!! I usually find that my Next Trip is better than the last.

I save those reminisces for the times when I am in bed alone. When I am with someone, I live in the moment. Never really had abysmally bad sex -- they've all been worth my attention :D

Never. I live in the here and now. Reminiscing sounds too depressing to me.

My thoughts exactly.

IN the mind's eye - YES. Both with the partners I have had and those I have only imagined.

However, in the literal sense, how I wish I could - even if I was in a house of mirrors I can only focus up to a foot w/o my glasses - and it's no fun to have to worry about knocking, fogging, or splashing those things...

I did the contact thing once, but I failed the test - got some stuff in on eye with them and turned that contact lens opaque - Thus I was warned not to do that again...