Friendships
Curious mind at work again here
Do you find it easy or difficult to make friends? Do you pour out you life story/deep dark secrets immediately or does it take a while to trust? Do you share all of you with your close friends? |
I'm a very hard person to get to know. Ask Pegasus. LOL took her 25 years to find out I was bi.
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I have a...personna here...the IAKG personna...and most people would think I was quite outgoing, the kind of person who is "friends" with everyone. In real life, thought, it's quite the opposite. While I might be friendly to others, I do better in smaller groups than in large crowds, and it takes a certain kind of person to "touch" me and allow me to open up to him/her. My true friends? I think I can count them on one hand.
The real-life IAKG is a what-you-see-is-what-you-get kind of girl. I've never been one to hide my feelings, thoughts, emotions--but only share them with the closest of people. Everyone else might know there was something wrong, but have not a clue. |
I tend to be open with all and have many aquaintences...
But for me close friends are few and far between...and even with them i tend to hold something back...i dont mean to...but i think its like a safety thing....to let people close to you is to give them to be ability to hurt you....i dont cope with friendship betrayal well...been there done that shit I'm a friend who'll be there if ya need me...anytime!....but finds it difficult to accept a return shoulder I tend to let friendships slip away before they get too close....i know sounds horrible...and most of the time i dont even realise until its too late... I'm a difficult person....i tend to be a bit of a chameloen...becoming the friend the other wants....but the true me is rarely shown Not sure my babble made sense there *L* anyway just sorta thinking to meself there |
I make friends slowly.
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Do you find it easy or difficult to make friends? Difficult, only because I don't talk to people unless they talk first, then I only give them the shortest answer. But if I feel like talking to them then it is a little easier.
Do you pour out you life story/deep dark secrets immediately or does it take a while to trust? Takes a looooong while if ever that I will tell everything about me. Do you share all of you with your close friends? No, only what I feel they need to know. I am not an outgoing person, I tend to keep to my self. |
I believe that Sharni and I must be twins..I am very much the same way.
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I do not make friends easily at all.
I have a decent group of acquaintances (sp?) and a very small group of true friends. Those that are my true friends pretty much know all that there is to know about me. They also know that no matter the time/place if they need something all they need do is ask (and it does not mean that I have seen them in 10 years, once a friend usually you're always a friend). I also know that I could do the same. In many cases I am closer to some of these friends than with my own family members. However, getting to that point takes a good long time. |
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That pretty much describes me except for the chamelon part of it. What you see is pretty much what you get with me. If someone doesn't like it them they aren't worthy any of my time. Anyone who is my friend understands that I have a tendancy to be hot and cold. It is kinda like a cat.. once I have had enough I am good for a while, but am there when someone needs me to be. :D |
Do you find it easy or difficult to make friends?
Easy.:cool: Do you pour out you life story/deep dark secrets immediately ………? Yeah.:cool: Do you share all of you with your close friends? Sure.:rolleyes2 |
Do you find it easy or difficult to make friends?
In between Do you pour out you life story/deep dark secrets immediately ………? Absoutely not Do you share all of you with your close friends? Some (not all) of them I get a little anxious in social situations. It takes a special kind of person to make really feel comfortable enough to call them a friend. |
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I make friends easily but I am not quick to trust and I rarely if ever pour my heart out to anyone. I am slow to truly trust someone with my secrets. When I do trust someone I am as open as I know how to be but I don't like to burden others with my issues. I do not handle betrayal of trust or confidences. |
Difficult or easy to make friends--- difficult
life stories, dark secerts----- no way share with close friends---- not everything not a person that talks much till I"ve known them for a good while,but a few close friends that I have are valued friends for life |
I make friends very easy although I am a better at listening to them then revealing all of my secrets.
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I am loyal and protective of my friends, and you would not want to be the one who fucks with them :D
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