How Many

[souls_cry2000]

I had two ex's who were into rough sex (simulated rape) and gasping. I was just wondering....How many women are into that sort of thing? Is this a common occurence. I wasn't comfortable with it but I went along with them.

[ASH]

rough sex is my favorite kind. one of my biggest fantasies revolves around rape. as far as i know, it's more common than people think.

[RandyGal]

Um....*whew*

Rough sex, not rape is a fantasy of mine...but I'm not sure how common either of them are.

By rough I think I mean energetic. :D

Or athletic maybe. :o

[Oldfart]

No

Rough sex is usually a dominance thing (or game) and as such,

not mything.

[RandyGal]

If that's the definition of rough sex then I DO just mean athletic, energetic, frantic, HAVE-to-do-it-NOW sex. :D


Sorry to go off topic there.....

now back to your regularly scheduled program. :)

[Oldfart]

RandyGal

Just my take on it.

Chase the opinion.

[Lilith]

I know it will come as a huge surprise to you all but I have a thing for sexual power struggles :p A beast once said it to me best,"Someone really ought to hold you down". Rape not really, but let's just say non-compliance maybe.......

[Lovediva]

I have to agree with the others here..rape I am not into..but like Lilith said...."Non-compliance" makes for great sex!!!! :D ;)

[BamaKyttn]

Well, tho I enjoy some noncompliance.... Rape is not a fantasy for me since a regrettable incident when I was 13.....

Always,
Kyttn

[Lovediva]

I am sooo sorry Bama.....nobody should go through that!!!!

[Sarriah]

I have to say that full rape is NOT for me as I feel sorry for any and all that have gone through that..
But I do love it when my man is rough.. There was this one time we went to a movie and we both seemed on edge, like i guess just pissy at eachother. So he stopped at the store got us some beer, told me to drink one while he drove home. After a few mins i noticed that we werent going home and was wondering where we were goin. He drove around for about 30mins or so while i drank 2 beers.
All the sudden he drove up this street where they were building new houses and pulled over. Got out went to my side of the door and took me out of the car. Bent me over the hood of the car and just took me right there..
Didnt say anything, just made me go where he wanted to go. It was so great being that i was pissy I didnt want to be touched or kissed or anything I just wanted rough sex... It was risky as I was wearing jeans so they were tugged around my ankles, I could feel the cool air all around me. and it was right out in the open I swear people could see us no matter where they were :D oh how wonderfull that was..... sorry was that to much info ROFL....

Sar

[vampeyes]

Sar - you never give too much info lmao I always want to her more ;) ..... For me it all depends on the mood and sometimes I am in the mood to be bad and defiant and have it rough.

[Wicked Wanda]

I am not sure this is an answer to your question hon.
I do like being "overpowered", but only by other women.
The nearest thing to a rape fantasy I have is my cherished "gangbang" fantasy, which includes being taken by both men and women.


WW

[Aqua]

Originally posted by Lilith
I know it will come as a huge surprise to you all but I have a thing for sexual power struggles :p

:eek: I never would have guessed!! :eek: :fish:

[Nice Guy]

I have no problem being rough with a partner but I have to draw the line at rape fantasy. For one thing I don't find the idea of it exciting at all and I wouldn't be comfortable enough to do it even if a partner asked me to. I can understand how some find it a great way to change up the sex lineup but it isn't for me.

[MissX]

Not really the rape thing, more like the getting held down, tied up thing...
but only when I trust the guy - that control freak thing :)

[axe31]

to be grabed and just made to do her will would be fun
once in awile dont think i could do that with a guy prefare
them gental

[Irish]

I agree with Nice Guy.To me there is nothing sexual about rape.
I think that it was O.F. ;who said that rape is a power thing.In over 40yrs. of sexual contact;I have never known a woman who
was turned on by rape.Put a Rapist or child molester;even a wife
beater;in prison and see how long that they last with the other
prisoners. Irish
P.S.Treat a lady;like a whore and a whore; like a lady!

[PantyFanatic]

I start out slowly, working our foreplay to her being on all fours to where I can mount doggie. I put my knees in between hers, and hook my feet over her calves from the outside. Then I lean over her and wrap my arms around her chest taking one breast in each hand. I hold her tight and whisper in her ear,;) “You don’t fuck as good as your sister!”

Always produces a WILD RIDE!:whiteghos

[scotzoidman]

PF, that's the game of "Rodeo"... see if you can stay on your mount for 8 seconds...

[sugar]

Well, I guess, again it's a huge difference between phantasy and reality. Of course, nobody wants to be raped.

BUT phantasy is a different thing. it doesn't have to become reality. (it shouldn't). One of my favourite phantasies though is that I sleep and some stranger breaks into my house, and takes me while I'm still half asleep, threatening me not to turn my head to see his face. I keep lying on my belly and he takes me from behind, maybe tying me down. He wouldn't blindfold me but I know if I would look at him he'd really hurt me. So I do everything he tells me to do and he fucks me while I fear for my life. I want to turn my head to see his face but I don't. At the same time, not knowing who that man is, totally turns me on. I just lie there, unable to move and let him do whatever he wants to do. And I start to enjoy his total dominance. He's grabbing my hair, pulling on it, hurting me, and despite the rough viollence, I get really wet and he calls me a whore because he can see how I enjoy my submission. He then leaves my pussy and enters my asshole.... and he pounds his big cock into me and I feel like being torn apart but I want him deep and deeper inside me.... He comes inside me and while I start to relax he slips out, giving me a last spank and disappears.

I get wet thinking about that right now.

However, do I want to get raped by a stranger? Of course not. But in my dreams I beg to be treated like a whore. Can you really feel guilty about your phantasies....? I can't.