giving head

[seamgrvs]

I have been married to my husband for 6 years and have yet to make him cum when I give him head without him or me jerking him of first. I havent had any problems with anyone else and he has told me that no one has been able to. Is there something I may be doing wrong, or are some guys just prone not to without assistance. Anyone ran into this?

[bogeyman]

First of all.. don't give up!!! Practice makes perfect.. and I'm sure he'll enjoy the practice...

I am 34 and have cum only once from a blowjob, and that was before I was married. Your husband should be happy that you are trying.. some guys wives won't even try....

I certainly am not an expert but a couple things that would help me to cum would be to make sure you stroke his cock in the same rythym as your mouth... and better yet, play with his ass... slide your hand under there while your lips encircle his cock... and be brave enough to insert a finger... I think I'd explode in a minute...

[PurpleLayc]

i used to go out with a guy that was the same way. having sex he could cum buckets but getting head he never could cum. just be patient and let him tell you what he really likes and eventually, you may be tasting his cum...

[boogiedown]

i have a hard time cumming with just the females mouth alone on my cock. there just isn't enough action with just the mouth. what gets me every time is the suck 'n jack. she puts two hands on my cock and jacks, at the same time sucking the head with a nice, smooth, rhythmic up and down motion. my god, that feels so unbelievably good. she has me cumming in no time. hopefully we can help. let us know how it goes.

[chris23]

I ashamed to admit this, but inserting a finger or playing with a guy's butt will help in making him cum. My gfriend surprised me with that approach and it worked wonders.

[scotzoidman]

Nothimg to be ashamed of, your prostate gland is right in front of the rectum, & I defy any man to NOT cum when the prostate is being massaged. You will learn about that when the doctor wants to do a prostate exam!:whiteghos

[rocknindy]

my wife makes me cum everytime she gives head, and the finger or lil vibrator in the ass, it's like heaven

[CptMorgan]

I like a good suction. Never be afraid to apply suction (not to mention to look it gives when a woman's cheeks are dented in a little). More suction can often be better. And don't worry, no matter how hard you can suck, it won't hurt!

Also, everyone is talking of those little spots that they like to be touched, I really like that spot on the underside at the base ....

[chief4]

Technique has alot to do with it. I has a hooker give me head once and I shot my load in less that a minute. My wife gives me head and it takes a while, but well worth it, she is not too good at it so it takes longer. When I give head I use alot of tongue on the head. The ass thing does work wonders, if what is stuck in there isnt too big.

[ericthered]

I'll go with the majority. What make you cum is the up and down movement. If a girl wants to do this just with her mouth, she's going to have to work very hard at it. Far, far better to cup his balls in one hand (or move further back if you're adventurous) and use the other to jack the shaft while you give all the mouth attention to the head.
I love the twist (hold the skin back gently; pull it back tight; add a twist of the skin around the shaft; repeat for as long as he lasts.)
So your hand is the power house and your mouth gives the delicate touches that make a BJ heavenly.
Good blowing!

[Sharni]

I've not come across a man that hasn't cum when i give him head.....must be just lucky i guess :p:p

[Lilith]

Sharni...I don't think luck has a thing to do with it:p
We have seen your blow jobs and it is obviously a talent you have:D:D:p

[Irish]

I have always found that knowing that your partner;enjoys performing;the act;makes all of the difference in the world. Irish
P.S.Trying to act;as if;you are enjoying;giving or recieving;will make;orgasm;almost impossible.At least with me.

[MissBecca]

Make an "L" with your thumb and forefinger and hold the base of his cock (not too hard, mind you!) It increases sensitivity.

[jennaflower]

here is a little tip... next time you are pleasuring him in such a wonderful fashion.. take out your vibrator.. and place it against the outside of your cheeks.... the vibration that causes may be just what he needs to jump over the edge :) YUMMY

[Harley Q]

Now, everyone here has really good advice, and it's all probably based on more experience than I could imagine. I don't claim to be in any position to give out advice, but the one thing that comes to my mind is this, and it goes for anyone who is having the same problem. You can twist and suck and blow and jerk until the cows come home (and won't those cows be surprised what you're up to when they do), but make sure the gentleman's completely comfotable. In my limited experience, if a guy is nervous about anything, the show does not get to the finale. That's just my little chunk of advice.

[garman]

Don't be afraid to make some noise. I love it when my girlfriend blows me and is really noisy. The suction sounds drive me crazy. Moaning sets up a great vibration on my cock. If she sounds really into it, I can't hold back. So ... Make some noise baby!!!

[Irish]

garman---It's;especially;good;if she hums;the Star Spangled Banner.I'll;guarantee;that you'll;stand at attention&salute!
Irish

[garman]

How true Irish - how true - lol

[Vintage Vixen]

Giving head is a true form of art ,i know when i'm doin my bf i make noise,moan n groan because it just turns me on so much.An idea thats really exciting and gets us both goin ,giving head in the car while he's driving,yeah it could be dangerous but it's such a rush and so intense,i can't wait to get in the car and head down the highway .And its a big turn on for him too:)

[dzbuster]

starting i love getting head. i feel a little guilty getting blown though seems kind of one sided. personaly i need the reassurance that i'm not the only one enjoying themself. at least i think that's what it is. anyway i find that a large portion of good sex is mental. if i feel weird or start worrying about life in general i see that i don't perform as well. thinking takes valuble blood and moves it away from my cock and puts it towards my brain. been told i'm normal and during sex i find it's better to let the little head do the thinking. this might apply to your man's problem

[Rick L.]

Yep, a lot of it is mental. However, be sure that he can enjoy the view of it when you give him head. If you have long hair, it might be in the way if you don't pull it aside. And remember to look up at him and give him one of your most seductive smiles once in a while, that's really arousing...

Training makes an expert, but enthusiasm takes you a long part of the way!

[Vintage Vixen]

Now you know i luv it !!! Cum on have you ever heard me complain..?????? Hmmmmmm :)