The chat room bs

[Ophelia]

So,
I ventured into the chat room...where I was bombarded with a pm or whisper or whatever you call them...

normal chat room protocol...asl.

I gave it.

Then came the question of "stats". I gave them...at least what I felt the important ones were...

I was prodded for weight. When I answered honestly, I was given the big slam.

My real question is, what difference does it make if you can't see me? Can't we share some dirty talk with you pretending I'm Cindy Crawford or something? AND...why is that an issue at all in the cyber sex world? I guess I'm a little peepee hurt.

Opinions welcome.

[nutworld]

I'm honest..

While I dont walk into the room screaming...

"I'm 35, 6',180 and married..and have a small dick"

Just seeing if anyone is paying attention. :)

Its average not small.

If I'm asked I tell the truth..regardless of the question...of course I'm not a woman in a chat room to get bombarded with lots of PM's etc.

You do bring up a vaild point..why cant people just do what the rooms alow us to..and be "Cindy Crawford' and "Russel Crowe" or "Tom Cruise"?..and just have a good time.

I'm sorry that people are so crass and hurtful...but being honest again..what does it really matter, they are not your friends that are hurting you..just names on a screen. Who gives a rat's ass...Maybe next time..if you must, "fudge" it a bit, if you so desire.

I'll talk if we were to meet Ophelia..any time. ok?

[Prophet Reality]

In a way I agree with both. But I think the thing to remember Orpheila is that there are poeple from other boards in the chat room as well, not all of them are just members here. But anytime you want to chat Orpheilia just let me know and I will be more than happy to chat and have fun with you.

[Lovediva]

A/S/L

Here is my response to that question....

Age...old enough...
Sex...with a name like LoveDiva....Male
Location...at my desk...

Nothing bothers me more than going into a chat room (not just here)and being asked a/s/l or wanna cyber the minute you get in there...GET A LIFE PEOPLE!!!

If I wanted to cyber....I would PM you!!! :D ;)
BTW...What's cyber???? LMFAO

But when I do chat...with people who are respectful...I am 100% honest. I have always said "I am probably the most honest person you will even meet ont he net" I have nothing to hide...(except a few nekkid pics from boyfriend!) :D :D

Ophelia..I am sorry you got slammed. Pixies chat room is usually a nice place to go and chat with the great friends made here...but you do get the ODD IDIOTS IN THERE!!!

[Lilith]

I have not ben brave enough to venture into the chat room. I can barely keep up with all the good stuff on the site.
O- you should be who ever you want to be. That can be the real you or not. Sometimes the identity people make up is actually their truth and sometimes it is a wish. If you want honesty be honest~ if you want to be sexy be sexy, however you see that as being~The people who really matter will see who you are and what you need! Tootles!Lilith~~~~> who is staying safely out of the chatroom for now

[Ophelia]

Thanks for the input everyone! I know I shouldn't even give a crap. I usually don't. Yesterday I was having a "everyone at Pixie's is so great" day that I forgot humans are humans.

Thanks for the chatting offers. I'll watch for you, fellas!

Glad to re-affirm my initial thoughts...

Pixie's people are GREAT!

Muah!

Ophelia

[Irish]

Chat rooms are just not me.It may be wrong;but;I am very selective with the people that I want to tell intimate things!
I am no one special but you have to earn my friendship!Thats
just the way that I am and thats the way that I intend to be.
When I was younger;I made the mistake of being to trustful with
individuals and I got burned.Since then;I have become very selective. Irish
P.S.Your reputation ;is what; people go by if they don't know you
personaly!Having a motorcycle business tought me that!

[Ophelia]

Irish-
thanks for your insight. I guess I was looking for some mid-afternoon entertainment. A quick chat, then a drift into fantasy land. I've posted several times that I am a lesbian, but often have fantasies that incorporate men...yesterday, I felt bold enough to explore some "cyber fantasy" of sorts. Unfortunately, the truth got me shut down.

No biggie...I managed to "entertain" myself! ;)

As far as friendship online goes...well, I've learned some interesting lessons. Fortunately, I feel that message posts and forums are a great way to get to know me...cause I can say whatever I feel. I do, however, agree that friendship is something you have to earn.

Ophelia

[Oldfart]

Ophelia

I occasionally wander a couple of chats.

I hate the ASL barrage, so I am sometimes a 14yr

young girl from Dunedin in New Zealand, just long

enough to tittilate, then run away.

Normally, I am boringly honest.

There is a difference between chat and jumping headlong

into cybersex. The web is full of brash children of all ages

who are enjoying sexual confrontation without consequence.

They are immune even from the traditional slap in the face.

Some rooms are not so aggressive. Find some and relax.

Like Nut and Prophet, I'll chat openly anytime you wish.

[Aqua]

On the odd occasion I end up in a chatroom, I'm very honest...
And I would never slam someone for being the same. People shouldn't push for information if they are afraid of the answer.
Ophelia, if I started chatting with you in a room and we were getting into some sexy, hot conversation ;) , I wouldn't even ask your weight, and if you brought it up, I wouldn't care... we're online.
I would care if it's someone I'm going to actually meet, 'cause honestly most men care about physical appearance. That's also not to say I would expect a woman to be a super thin supermodel. Just appealing to me... (which covers a broad spectrum!) :D Anyway, don't let it get you down! Like Diva said, you get Odd Idiots in there!:D

[Bilbo]

been in the chat room many times with many members, and had a great time....just being us

[Sharni]

I enjoy the Pixies chat room.....I very rarely get PMed without being asked first if it's ok to do so....
I also get the a/s/l thing...i just answer honestly...if they ask my weight...i answer that honestly too...if they no longer want to chat....i really dont care...that is who i am...if they dont like it they can shove it where the sun dont shine...
I DONT cyber....but have nothing against those that do...if i'm asked.....i just politely tell them i'm not interested...and they generally go and find someone who does...
I was in the chat the other day with some members...and we were discussing everyday things(and sex of course:D)...just like friends around the kitchen table over coffee....it's a great way to get to know fellow members..

Sharniqua

[luv2please]

I don't really go to the chat rooms but are far as honesty, I try to be myself at all times. I am what I am and if people don't like well thats too bad...for them. I like this place because I feel real here and the people here are real. I am not interested in Cindy Whateverhernameis. I would prefer real people with real desires,emotions, bodies,faces,etc. And I enjoy the openness of the people here. Sorry if I got carried away. ;)

[Irish]

I agree with luv2please.I have never been in a chat room and I
doubt if I ever will.It's just not me!I believe what he says about being honest about yourself.I am;who I am;and if people don't like that;that's the breaks.I am long past the point of trying to be what other people want.Peoples honesty about themselves is what attracted me to this place originaly. Irish

[rednek]

I have been told many times that if you are yourself you never go wrong! Its a lot easier to remember the details!
Red

[lorri]

Hi all - this is the first time I have ventured into posting a reply on here, and after six months of reading the forums, thought it was maybe time I did so.

I know some of you will recognise me from the pixies chatroom.
I happened upon that room what now seems an age ago and, for me, that has become my home.

Just as you are here - a community of friends that share views, in the main I have found that to be true of the pixies chatroom too.
There are those who wander in and out, but as in here, there are a set of regulars who chat there about anything and everything.

Ophelia, I'm sorry that you received the reception you did and hope that it won't deter you from coming back and visiting us again.

Personally, it matters little to me what someones a/s/l is, or for that matter what they look like - when I chat, I like to get to know the person for who they are, and often during the course of the conversation, the said a/s/l details emerge naturally.

With regards to the unwanted pm's, it seems to be a fact of life when you log onto the busier chatrooms that this happens.
I simply close the pm windows down without a reply. The rooms really can be a nice place to meet friends and chat about anything, be it general chit-chat or sexual in nature.

So.... please come back and see us Ophelia, and the same warm invite is extended to the other members of pixies too.

Time for me to get off my soap box ...... and I look forward to chatting to you all soon.

;)

[Oldfart]

Good to see you here.

OF

[souls_cry2000]

i tend to get the a/s/l thing and ask it too. it doesn't really bother me. i wish people would pm me more or ask the crazy sexual questions. i can deal with that. sometimes i come to the chats to escape reality in a way . i'm honest about my info and open enough for any number of things. i'm a perv @ heart so if we get in a chat and you ask some off the wall question i'll talk to you about it and maybe use it as a springboard. i might shock you with some of my remarks. ;)

[BamaKyttn]

at heart? *lol* no *rotflol* you're a perv at heart, mind body soul and actions, Souls luv..... thats okay thats why we get along so well...

Blessed be

Kyttn

[Fang]

I must say that I love to cyber-screw. I appreciate an honest reply, but I rarely ask flat out "how much do you weigh?" I always ask about how a woman's body looks. If she says big, or thick, I say YEEHAA! I'm just about 30 and in my time I've come to find women of all shapes and sizes hot. It's more often not what a woman looks like or what size she is, it's how she presents and works what she's got. If she's personable, good, if she's smart, even better-- if she's funny, fantastic -- if she's all that and a freak, I am in heaven.

Unfortunately you will always have assholes in chat rooms. Yin and Yang perfectly syncopated. Try chatting with me some time, it might make up for the dick hole who dropped you.

Besides, any woman who could drive Hamelt mad must have something going on!

[Ophelia]

Thank you, kind sir, for your words.

I enjoy a cyber romp when I'm at work...and bored beyond comprehension. Seems to "wake things up"! :)

I don't know what time zone you're in, or when you are most frequently logged in, but I'll keep my eyes open and my beans soaking! :)

Ophelia

[legend]

i don't go into chat rooms...however on icq, i prefer to take the humourous approach. after all, if u can't have a laugh, then it may not be worth talking to them


remember, smile and the whole world smiles with you....

[Fang]

Legend, what you said is much like what I just posted in the innuendo thread.

"If they can't take a fuck, joke 'em."

[Robeye]

rey Lorri's here!

[Grumble]

I wander occassionally into a chat room and have chatted to Lorri :) she is an @lorri in there whatever that means.

I am honest about myself cos if you tell the truth you dont get caught up in trying to remember what lie you told someone, thats too bloody hard. Shit, I have trouble rememering normal things LOL. I prefer to be me anyway.

A long time ago I did some cyber screwing but havent done that for a long time. I hate the a/s/l stuff what does it matter? it is important in the flesh but not on the net as you never really know who is on the other end for sure in a chatroom.

The sweet 25 year old sex kitten may well be a 50 year old male with a 2" penis LOL.

[legend]

i was reading this thread and thought of this pic :D

[Irish]

Legend---I watched a talk show;years ago;and they introduced
actual phone sex operators.They were the ugliest,fatest,make you lose your hard-on women;that you have ever seen! Irish

[legend]

Irish - i don't know why people think there's a model on the other end. i'm sure they'd get paid more modelling

[axe31]

i tell the truth becouse i may meet them one day
but have a icq freind that we swap fantacy lifes
we no there not true and is fun iam james the bi doctor
shes jen the gay law student:D

[mindboxer505]

in fun when i get hit with the asl thing....ill usually answer as follows............ 50001/2 ......meat popsicle.......to the left of insanity....unless the chat room monitor gets peeved i reserve that kind of info for those that matter.....

[quisath]

I am always honest and I would just like to say Hello to lorri....................we've talked and she is very nice..........Grumble and I have run into each other and Chided. There are good and bad in everyplace you visit. I just tell the truth and have fun. I don't get upset as much as I get bored, but I have had some really nice conversations with people from all over the World. I like the Mindful and disreguard the rift raft.