Lust vs. Must

[Lilith]

Is there any attributes that you look for in a playmate but not necessarily in a long term mate? or vice versa?

[PantyFanatic]

The third button.;)

[LixyChick]

*checking all over my body for a third.....not to mention...a second....button*

And to answer your question Lil.......I don't "look" for anything specific..........I don't judge a book by it's cover......but by the contents and how well it grips me or bores me.....so to speak!

[fzzy]

In a playmate .... that certain chemestry that sparks me .... if I'm looking to add what will make it last beyond the initial attraction .... intelligent humor works well for me, especially when it is combined with a certail level of confidence.

[Belial]

Originally posted by LixyChick
*checking all over my body for a third.....not to mention...a second....button*

And to answer your question Lil.......I don't "look" for anything specific..........I don't judge a book by it's cover......but by the contents and how well it grips me or bores me.....so to speak!
I believe he was referring to the clit as the third button, and the nipples as the first two :)

[GingerV]

I like the way you count Belial ;).

Fzzy said it. For fun, any old spark will do. Could be anything, with me. I've "sparked" at people for the damnedest reasons...and not regreted any of the ones who became playmates.

But for a relationship, they need a lot more than just that spark. They need a sense of humor, a sense of who they are and what they want, respect for themselves and for others, kindness, consideration, intelligence, confidence, a sex drive that can keep up with mine, and a sense of adventure. They also had to live at my speed, want what I want from life, agree with me about how one deals with problems between us, how one raises children, and (important though prosaic) how one deals with money. Oh yeah, they do still have to have that spark.

It was always a hell of a lot easier to get into my bed than into my life. Momma taught me well ;).

[PantyFanatic]

Originally posted by Belial
I believe he was referring to the clit as the third button, and the nipples as the first two :)
NO!

I thought everybody knew that old joke. It's so bad, but so funny.:D
(*leaves the joke at the dungeon door, rings bell and runs back to Victoria Secret storeroom*)

"The perfect woman has three button on her forehead.

SUCK & FUCK

COOK & CLEAN

and OFF"

[Lilith]

PF~ :spank::D

[Scarecrow]

ooohh yea youngsters ;) :rolleyes:

[nikki1979]

omg thats horrible.......im sooooooo offended buy the third button remark...... ROFLMAO ok so im really not buut the bluff was good eh? *snickers*

ok back when i was single my "playmate" needed usually a nice car ( i was so damn shallow in my teens LOL) i usually went out w men in uniform, mmmmmmmmmmmmmm, adn they always had a great sense of humor.
in my mate i found strenght not physical but u know emotional , someone who cud hold me when i cried and not run away . also someone who liked childred, cuz i already had one :) i also found respect and tenderness and still someone who cud be an ass at times so i cud still have good arguments ....hey! they lead to greattttttt makeup sex!

[LixyChick]

Originally posted by pantyfanatic
NO!

I thought everybody knew that old joke. It's so bad, but so funny.:D
(*leaves the joke at the dungeon door, rings bell and runs back to Victoria Secret storeroom*)

"The perfect woman has three button on her forehead.

SUCK & FUCK

COOK & CLEAN

and OFF"
No wonder I couldn't find it!!!!!!

[cowgirltease]

Yes!!!!!! I like them playful but very seductive. Gotta have foreplay. It's a must!!!;)

[Aqua]

In any mate... a desire to have their ass worshipped. By me, preferably. Oh, yeah... that's news. :rolleyes:

:p :D

[Lovediva]

(__o__) my ass is ready!! :D ;)

[babybunny]

(_o_) <-- so is this bunny tail... ;)

[Aqua]

Oooooooooo... ;) You two wanna flip a coin to see which tail I start with? :o

[babybunny]

I call tails!! ;)

[Lilith]

Good I call heads~ 2 please:D

[Max_theHitMan]

GingerV

Fzzy said it. For fun, any old spark will do. Could be anything, with me. I've "sparked" at people for the damnedest reasons...and not regreted any of the ones who became playmates.

But for a relationship, they need a lot more than just that spark. They need a sense of humor, a sense of who they are and what they want, respect for themselves and for others, kindness, consideration, intelligence, confidence, a sex drive that can keep up with mine, and a sense of adventure. They also had to live at my speed, want what I want from life, agree with me about how one deals with problems between us, how one raises children, and (important though prosaic) how one deals with money. Oh yeah, they do still have to have that spark.

I totally agree with GingerV on this one. :)
For a "fun time" playmate anything goes and sometimes it usually does. But for something really serious (long-term relationship) I tend to be a bit picky. I do love a lady that behaves at the dinner-table , but I also want a wildcat in bed too. All in all, I guess GingerV said it best.

[dicksbro]

Posted by PF:

"The perfect woman has three button on her forehead.
SUCK & FUCK
COOK & CLEAN
and OFF"

OFF?? :confused:

[PantyFanatic]

Sorry DB. Tonight is not a good night to explain that.

[osuche]

In a playmate...(in order)...physical spark, intelligence, creativity, open to trying new things in bed, sex drive, honesty, integrity, and emotional maturity.

In a life partner...all of the above, but also including good provider, good with money, worships me, similar values and goals, sense of purpose in life, and able to go toe-to-toe with me both in and out of the bedroom.